Nov. 19, 2008 - 10 Things You Should Say to a Pregnant Woman |
1. You look beautiful. - This does not really need an explanation. I don't think any woman can hear this enough, pregnant or not.
2. You are a great Mom. - Again, no explanation really needed, right? Well I'll give one anyway. Its so hard to not get down on oneself during pregnancy, a Mom can't hear these words enough.
3. When can I bring you and your family a meal? - I don't know about you, but when I get to the end of pregnancy, my appetite is nothing and my desire to cook food leaves my body. So any offer for a prepared meal is a tremendous blessing, not only to me, but even more importantly to my family who is sick of frozen pizza, sandwiches and tacos.
4. Is there anything I can do for you? (and really mean it) - Even if I don't have anything that I need help with, its nice that you acknowledge how difficult the end of pregnancy is. Even getting to the bottom of the washing machine is nearly impossible. I am always so thankful when people ask if they can help and really mean it.
5. Did I tell you that you look so good. - Again, no fat pregnant woman can hear this enough.
6. I am so excited for you and your family and can't wait to meet this baby. - In a day and age when so many are critical of any family that chooses to have more than 2 children, it is always a blessing to hear people say nice things about a new addition.
7. Here's my cell number, call me if you need anything. - You know those people who really mean this, they are a blessing beyond belief. There are often unexpected things in the end of pregnancy and to be able to have that one or two people that I can call to just take the kids because the super super crabbies have arrived, what a blessing.
8. Go take a nap, its good for you. - Thank you for acknowledging how tired I am and letting me know its OK to rest. That it is actually good for me to rest my body.
9. Here are some brownies and ice cream. - Brownies and Ice Cream at the perfect time, need I say more?
10. You look fabulous, glowing. - See previous posts.
So, my challenge to you is next time you see a pregnant woman say something encouraging to her and edifying to her, something she maybe has not heard recently and stay away from those other cliche things.
Susan |
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Nov. 19, 2008 - Untitled Comment |
| Posted by momatpeace |
I wish I were your neighbor! ♀ Oh... look what I accidentally typed. Too funny... Ü I think it's a sign... you are having a girl.
And HEY -- I thought of you this morning and it had nothing to do with you being pregnant. So there... I stepped on a Lego! Ha ha haaa.... you will forever be with me my friend, in spirit. The bottom of my feet thank you!
Jennifer
p.s. pregnancy becomes you -- you are absolutely glowing! No really... you are... |
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