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• Nov. 27, 2007 - Hospitality???

Posted in Life

I don't know why I wait until I have something profound to say...(Well, perhaps "profound" is a little strong :-) at least something I consider worthwhile to say) before blogging.  Some of my favorite blogging posts to read are those that just give a glimpse into people's lives.  With that in mind, I don't promise to do better, but I'll try. 


I'd really like to post pictures of my favorite ornaments and/or Christmas decorations.  The house is nearly completely decorated.  I wanted to get it done ASAP because I plan to host a cookie swap here for our church ladies on December 7th. 


I'll just confess here, the last time I took one of those spiritual inventory test thingies, I scored lowest in hospitality!!  How does that sound coming from a resident of the Hospitality State??? Oh, and God does have a sense of humor.  Remember that foreign country we went to as missionaries for two years?  Guess what they value.....hospitality!  Those folks put me to shame!  Now, it's not that I don't love people or that I don't love having them over. My problem is that the whole thing totally stresses me out.  Cleaning the house, making sure every thing is in place, planning food, etc is hard for me.  Then I worry that people won't have a good time.  I asked the ladies at church to please let me know if they plan to attend so I can let everyone know how many cookies to bring.  So far five people have signed up....DD16, DD12, a mother and daughter from the church, and myself.  Do you think they all know hospitality isn't my gift and they're afraid to come?  I'd think they'd want to come just to see how it turns out! LOL!


I'll keep you posted.

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• Nov. 27, 2007 - Me too!

Posted by 2boysmom
Hospitality is not my gift either! I would get so worked up anytime I was having something at my house that my husband finally started putting a stipulation on the planning. He'd agree to have the event at our house on the condition that I didn't go crazy and lose my mind. I'd have to agree or not host the event. I'm much better now. And when it came to having a family over with kids that weren't that obedient (or parents that didn't care) I would pray before they arrived for God to help me be a good hostess. Now with the holidays coming on, I'm tempted to have some activity here but I've got to gear up for it (or pray up). Have fun with the cookie swap and Merry Christmas!
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• Jan. 30, 2008 - Hospitality/Cookie swaps

Posted by dbynums7
Drewe Llyn, I have two thoughts on your post. First, I also have trouble with hospitality. For all the same reasons as you, as well as hating to commit to something when I'm not sure what that particular day will bring. But I do enjoy having people drop in-- which doesn't happen often--but when it does, I enjoy the visit. I didn't have to clean the house, or stress over the details, or commit to anything. I just had to stop what I was doing and visit for awhile.

My 2nd thought is on cookie swaps. I seldom make cookies for my family, but when I do, we really enjoy them. And I'd rather keep the entire batch here at home, than take them to a cookie swap and take the chance of getting cookies we wouldn't like as well. I am also way too busy in December to think about adding another thing to my schedule. So I don't participate in cookie swaps. (I sound like a real grouch, don't I? :-) )
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