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• Apr. 12, 2006 - Fretting and Sobering Up

Philippians 2:14 "Do all things without murmurings and disputing"....sometimes we say without grumbling or complaining.
Maybe you like how Psalm 37 starts, "Don't fret." 
 
Perhaps some are able to keep themselves in check and do not struggle with complaining. I'd like to be able to say I'm one of those that never frets or complains. Then of course I would be a liar and a complainer. God does not require perfection but he does want us to grow in grace. So, if like me, you find yourself complaining, even inwardly, consider how those escalating thoughts progress from annoyance to ambush.  Sometimes complaints starts innocently because most of us need to vent from time to time. I do. When we vent, maybe we need to consider if that's a signal from the Holy Spirit --that He is on low and we are taking the helm. We vent, blow our stack, get overwhelmed because we are being filled, to the top--over the top.   The scripture says we should not be drunk with "whine." And sometimes we do get a bit intoxicated with our woes. When that  happens we need to ask God to fill us with his Holy Spirit. It's sometimes hard to think of God when you are drunk with the cares of this world. Maybe when we feel like whining we should pray Lord, help us be sober minded.
 
If you are fussing and fretting too much, and drunk by circumstances that overwhelm you consider some things God says about being sober.
 
the 5:8 But let us, who are of the day, be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love; and for an helmet, the hope of salvation.
 
1Ti 3:11 Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.
 
Tts 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
 
Pe 4:7 But the end of all things is at hand: be ye therefore sober, and watch unto prayer.
 
1Pe 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:
 
When I consider sobriety I'd define it as reality. People drink to escape. Being sober means being truthful. It's not just about being serious. When we are truthful we have a different perspective. Our problems, issues, frustrations take on a new perspective in the light of the truth of the cross. Oh to be sure, we have problems, and I'm not oversimplifying. Yet, those diddly little things that drive us crazy need the Grace of God, and to be seen through the lens of truth, as much as the big issues. 
 
 Phil 4:8 Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
 
Hoping to focus on whats true instead of wasting time on what's not.
Me
 
 
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• Apr. 12, 2006 - You hit the nail on the head, 'ole gal

Posted by Anonymous
Well, so you must have been reading my mail lately. I know the complaints are not worth the breath it takes to say them. It doesn't do any good, but boy does it feel good to vent sometimes. And I just keep feeling like all these minor irritants, compounded daily, are driving me to drink. Whenever I get the urge though, I will stop and remember to pray, and trust God, and re-read your thoughts and His on being sober in this reality.

U.H.
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• Apr. 17, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by rerlpr
You are one powerful woman with a pen (keyboard) in hand.
Leslie
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• Apr. 20, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by OreoSouza
Excellent comparison...whine and wine. Wonderful job weaving words once again.
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• Apr. 21, 2006 - It looks like the state of

Posted by ExperimentalKid
Florida! Thank you for the ideas. And for visiting my new blog.
Charlie
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• May. 13, 2006 - Happy Mother's Day!

Posted by DandelionSeeds
Hope you're doing well...

Just stopping by to wish you a Happy Mother's Day on Sunday! May you find true joy in your children and the blessing of motherhood.

Praise God for allowing us such a wonderful, life changing experience as raising His children!

In Him,
Amy
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• May. 29, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by OreoSouza
It's been an awfully long time since we've had a post here. I don't want to be a big "whiner", but, well, I'm waiting for more of your beautifully written words of wisdom.

The waiting just makes it more lovely when you do post.
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• Jun. 7, 2006 - Missing your blog

Posted by Anonymous
Gosh, I guess life gets too busy and blogging has to take second or third place in our lives. Maybe I should take this as an omen....except I don't believe in those, LOL, and if Lilacs isn't blogging, maybe I shouldn't be either!!!

Well, I haven't been doing much emailing either.

I hope you are doing well,
Uncle Ernie
(I forgot who I am.......???)
Me
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• Jun. 7, 2006 - Henry, that's it!

Posted by Anonymous
Uncle Henry.
hugs
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• Jun. 10, 2006 - just a thought

Posted by loydboyz
hello - i have been peeking here and there at blogs - we are homeschoolers in northern va and i've just been popping in here and there seeing what ideas people have. i have enjoyed what you have shared. also wondering if there is a homeschool group in md. the reason why i ask is, one of my sons (one of five) is looking at a technical school in phoenix md. we are trying to find a homeschool family that might be interested in boarding him for 4 nights a week (just a place for him to lay his head at night) and he would be coming home the other nights. anyway - if there is a group for me to contact, maybe we could work something out - meet some families - see if they are up to this exchange. if you have any ideas - feel free to pass me on to someone else .
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• Jul. 3, 2006 - I guess that is what I get for *****-footing around

Posted by Anonymous
Your blog looks great! I have been shown up by a youngin. LOL
She did a great job. I have been monkeying around on my blog too....you will have to go see what I have done....see if you can spot any difference.

Love,
Uncle Henry
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• Nov. 16, 2006 - Hey...

Posted by ByHisGraceInColorado
Methinks you are long over due here for a blog entry. :)
N.
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• Dec. 7, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Earthling
You had better update....because I know where you live! Mwahaha....

Me

P.S--there is possibly a book exactly to your left that you are supposed to be reading. :P
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