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Aug. 8, 2008 - Integrity

Integrity: the quality or condition of being whole or undivided; completeness.


I often see that word and sigh, thinking of a soldier dying for his country or a missionary leaving his family to go reach out to a civilization desperate for the truth of God's Word. I think of big acts, and famous people who make a difference. Nobility, bravery and strength - I look on those things and thank the Lord for people who live it out. I look on my own life and think that one day I will have those traits. I look on it as if it's some distant thing that I cannot obtain until I'm "older" or "more experienced". We've all been preached to about making a difference in the lives of others, but what about ourselves? Are we making changes in our own character? Are we living a life of integrity?

The other day I was in the kitchen eating, watching my amazing mother try to do three things at once: talk on the phone, clean the kitchen and answer questions. As I sat there eating I thought about how I wanted to be like that one day and how one day I'll be admired for my hard work ethic, etc, etc. I said a quick prayer for an opportunity to come up so I could work on it, and thought nothing more of it. Now, by this point my mom was starting to get overwhelmed so she eventually left the room to continue her phone conversation and I was left to myself in the kitchen. After lunch hours the Clark kitchen isn't usually spotless and this was no rare occasion. I started to go back and forth in my head about whether I should clean it up or not and I started to make excuses like: I can't clean up cause what if everyone isn't done eating? It would be a total waste. Obviously, things needed to be cleaned up, but can you guess what I did? I got up, went straight upstairs and left the kitchen for "someone else" to clean up, thinking: what's the big deal? I do it all the time. How's that for integrity?

Now I know you're thinking you've done way worse, and truth is, so have I. No matter what the situation is though, you have to decide in your heart to do the right thing, and do it. Sometimes integrity isn't necessarily choosing right over wrong, it's choosing right over nothing. It's making the choice to do the right thing instead of doing nothing at all. It isn't easy, and in most cases, integrity doesn't involve being in a big crowd or peer pressure (for me, anyways). It's in the small things we do...it's the "quality of being whole or undivided" no matter what situation we're in. Being moral and choosing the right things in every situation. As Jim Stovall puts it: "Integrity is doing the right thing, even if nobody is watching". It's hard.

I was watching a woman run a marathon on tv a few months back and I remember being so struck and inspired by her motivation. She was only halfway through but there was such confidence in her face that she was going to complete it. I'm sure everything in her body was screaming to stop but she didn't slow down. This woman's strength and motivation kept her going - not her dreams of having it. I get so caught up in dreaming and hoping for the future that I miss the opportunities I have now. Those are the most important in my life; those are the ones that will build character; and I still ignore them. I keep waiting for a big chance to prove my integrity but to be honest, as I examine how I live, I notice how very little I have. I know that I need to be more faithful to what I know is right...to my gut, to put it bluntly.

"The integrity of the upright will guide them, but the perversity of the unfaithful will destroy them." Proverbs 11:3 (NKJV)

Like every other Christian on earth, I've always wanted to be someone people can trust and look up to...someone who is noble. It's taken me so long to realize that the choices I make every day are the ones that build my character and it's not how much time I spend praying before I get up in the morning. It's purity in mind and in actions...it's in the little, mundane things we do every day that make us who we are. Once you are confident in this, there will be no need to preach it, because you're living it out.
Blessings,
-Priceless Purity-

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Aug. 1, 2008 - What Forgiveness Really Is


An incident happened recently, that was really very interesting.  In fact, it's the inspiration for this entire article.  (Surprise, surprise.)
The story goes like this:  There was someone we had tried to make amends with recently, because of a silly little misunderstanding that had happened months ago.  (Note the words misunderstanding - no one is right in a misunderstanding, so both sides are in the wrong and both sides deserve to apologize.)  We made mistakes in this argument, but so did they.  We were quick to judge what we THOUGHT they said, and they were quick to do so as well.  Hence the misunderstanding.  And as misunderstandings continue without any clarification, everything gets terribly mixed up, and when defending yourself, your tones and their tones are all taken in the wrong way.  Okay, enough of that.  To the POINT...
 
Anyway, like we mentioned, this happened months ago.  So, recently, we felt led to write to them again, and try to be friendly, because we felt it was the right thing to do, and just avoiding one another wasn't appropriate.  Most importantly, we wanted to make sure that we were fully forgiven, and that they had no hard feelings against us still.  (To be honest, besides the misunderstanding, nothing else happened that could have made them stonecold towards us, so we were actually extremely confused as to why we had been ignored for the past few months.) 
  They informed us that they had long ago forgiven us after the incident, and that it didn't really matter anymore to them.  But in response to wanting to be friendly towards us again, we were shocked.  They informed us flat-out that they didn't want to go on being friendly as we had in the past.
  Even worse, their excuse for not wanting to be friendly towards us again was that they couldn't trust us after the incident, as friends, but could make "peace" with us, and leave it at that.  Wait...Rewind!?  Firstly, when you forgive, you're supposed to forget the whole incident - ENTIRELY.  (Yeah, that means EVERYTHING.)  Or, you're basically lying when you say the words "I forgive you".  Forgiveness is not there for when whatever happened doesn't BOTHER you anymore, or when you don't care about it anymore.  It's there to mend a broken friendship/relationship.  "Sorry" is when you take back what you said/did, forgiveness is when you approve their apology, and take everything back as well. 
 
Here are a few examples of how phony this way of handling things is - (We'll be using their definition of "peace" from here on out, so don't be confused with what we're saying.)
 
Example #1:  It's not Christ-like.  Imagine going to heaven and Jesus tells you He forgives you, but not enough to the point of loving you again.  - He'd NEVER do that, so WE Christians should never have this attitude.
 
Example #2:  Imagine this same situation in a marriage relationship, and you're trying to make amends with your husband and he says he forgives you, but no, he can't trust you as his wife anymore.  So, he'll make "peace" with you and give you a divorce for irreconcilable differences.  Still sound a little backwards?
 
Example #3:  Here's your typical "prodigal son" example.  You come to your father/mother and ask for forgiveness, they say they give you some, but you're still an outcast in their home because of what you did.  Logical?  No.  Oh wait!  They'll make "peace" with you!  (But you see where this is going, right?  This isn't PEACE if it's not a mutual thing anyway.)
 
Example #4: Here's another common example - say your family are members of a church, and they (the church), for some reason, throw you out.  Your whole family.  They may make "peace" with you, send you on your own way...But...Where is the love in this?  This is how God's people are ACTING towards eachother? 
 
Example #5: And lastly, the most common and realistic of all -  this same incident takes place among friends all the time.  It doesn't really matter how chummy you ever were with them, we are COMMANDED to love one another whether we like it or not.  Friendship is mutual, yes, and good friendship really requires being mutual.  BUT, in our Book, it doesn't say ANYTHING about Christians breaking off friendships because of whatever. 
 
"If someone says, 'I love God,' and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?"  - 1 John 4:8
 
 
Galatians 5:13 says "You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature ; rather, serve one another in love." 
 
Do you see that love is so important to God?  If God did not love US, He wouldn't have given us His Son for our Salvation.  So when He sees His children fighting and arguing between each other, it saddens Him.  This isn't all about us, and our feelings - it's about others, and most importantly about God.
 
And you must agree, that the best way to display this love amongst eachother is to be friendly; to forgive FULLY, not just half way, or to the point where you can stand something.
 
 
"[ Love, for the Day is Near ] Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for he who loves his fellowman has fulfilled the law."  - Romans 13:8
 
And now, tell me what ALL these verses have in common -
 
  1. John 13:34
    "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.
  2. John 13:35
    By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
  3. Romans 12:10
    Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.
  4. Galatians 5:13
    You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature ; rather, serve one another in love.
  5. Ephesians 4:2
    Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 
  6. Hebrews 10:24
    And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. 
  7. 1 Peter 1:22
    Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another deeply, from the heart.
  8. 1 Peter 3:8
    [ Suffering for Doing Good ] Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble. 
  9. 1 Peter 5:14
    Greet one another with a kiss of love. Peace to all of you who are in Christ.
  10. 1 John 3:11
    [ Love one another ] This is the message you heard from the beginning: We should love one another.
  11. 1 John 3:23
    And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us.
  12. 1 John 4:7
    [ God's Love and Ours ] Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.
  13. 1 John 4:11
    Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
  14. 1 John 4:12
    No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
  15. 2 John 1:5
    And now, dear lady, I am not writing you a new command but one we have had from the beginning. I ask that we love one another.
 
...That's right - they all have something to say about loving one another, that it's a must, and this definitely has something to do with forgiveness.  And HOW many times do you think this is mentioned throughout the Bible?  There are so many that are out there that would take forever to list. 
 
Now...How many times do you find "making peace" (as this person described, basically being "divorced" from fellowship with eachother forevermore) with your fellow brothers and sisters in Christ?
 
 And to be quite honest, this sort of "peace" is merely suggesting that you just kinda' sorta' co-exist.  (But not quite - even worse.) Almost trying to make the entire thing like this - you argue, hold a grudge, and then the person dies and suddenly you're just at peace with them, and there's really nothing else you can do about it anymore.  Okay?  That's a little STRANGE.   
 
To tell the truth, non-Christians behave ten times better than most Christians in these cases.  Who DO we Christians think we are?  Exactly. 
 
The answer is NEVER.  NEVER does it say anywhere, in the Word of God that we are to treat ANYONE with this "treatment".
 
This is what Satan enjoys - he loves to see these goofy and pathetic things stand in the way of people - he totally loves this.  In fact, he's probably laughing about it right now.  
 
And why do these arguments keep on thriving between brothers and sisters in Christ? 
 
There comes a point when people have to decide between God's way and the way they'd rather take.
 
 
But now, it gets to the point where you almost think there's no such way at making amends to these things.  Listen - Christ did not give His life for us because of these sorts of squabbles.  How can people both love God, yet hate and despise each other?  Just tell me HOW?
 
The truth is - Christians shouldn't be fighting amongst eachother.  Brothers and sisters in Christ do not have the right to shun one another because of this or that.  These little conflicts won't even matter one day, so why not just make atonement for it all with love and forgiveness?
If there were some case against an unbeliever and they were unwilling to forgive, that's sadly a different situation - but when you're a Christian, and you're not only given the chance to forgive someone, but also believe in forgiveness strongly, then...well...DO so.
 
It seems like we are more prone to forgiving non-Christians, in our efforts to being a good witness and example, than we are to forgive the other followers in Christ.  There should be no such thing as "irreconcilable differences" if you claim to have the love of Christ in your heart.  TRUE peace is found in happiness in friendship and contentment.  So this term of "peace" that this someone used, is sadly abused.
 
People shouldn't be focusing on breaking off other fellow believers - that's undoubtedly a terrible witness to unbelievers.  If we're all going to be before Christ one day, living in paradise, then WHY, I say WHY, act this way on earth?  Just because you can?  Because you want to? 
 
And what would you say to this person who would much rather be an enemy, than a friend, on account of some imaginary conflict in their minds?  Is the one trying to forgive right, or is the other?  We'd really like to know.
 
Friendship IS mutual, so it really does make a difference whether this person wants to be friends to you again, but the fact is, the right way for them to go about it would be to silently accept, whether they appreciate it or not.  It's not every day someone offers to take back everything and go on being friendly.  Why is it so hard for people to learn that love covers a MULTITUDE of sins (1 Peter 4:8) - and in most cases of forgiveness, love should be found, but it seldom ever is. 
 
People tend to just say they've forgiven someone because they don't want to appear as the "criminals" in whatever the argument was.  But forgiveness shouldn't be used for the sake of your image and reputation.  It should come from a pure, mature and loving heart.  It takes so much of one to soften their heart, especially when their view of someone is distorted by what they THINK one's intentions were/are, but it's something that has to be done. Hate is strong, and takes over love in a fury - it sticks to you, while love seems to just wear off.  It's not that it wears off, it's that sometimes it leaves you completely - the love of God leaves you, and your sin nature bleeds through in a merciless fury...
 
The comical (yet extremely SAD/true part of this) is that this person probably would hate us even more just reading this article.  Why?  Because their excuse is not right, not Christian, and most definitely not God -approved.  I still have it in my heart, if they ever change their mind, to forgive them fully.  I really do.  They may acknowledge in their hearts that it's wrong, but just don't have the nerve to admit it.  I'm just praying that God can work things out of this - it's just so amazing to see all the things you can learn from things like this.
 
It's really hard to forgive and FORGET, especially when you're wrong, but it's the right way to go.  It's what God desires for us to do.  We can't say we're these God-loving Christians when we have these bad attitude problems holding us back from acting lovingly towards each other, just because we don't feel like it, just because we don't want to, or because we think it will hurt us, ruin us, damage us.  It most certainly WILL NOT.  If God prescribes this medicine then it can't be misleading.  Being kind never hurt anyone.  So why is this so hard?  Why so stubborn?  It's admitting you're wrong, and stepping down a level, and that is what some people cannot allow themselves to do.  Call me judgemental, but there is a thing called pride that I see in people, that simply cannot enable them to even do the simplest, sweetest things.  And those are the most important things of all.
 
God bless everyone!  And may this article be something to think about and to ponder in your hearts...
 
 
Purely,
~RACHEL & JILLIAN~

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Mar. 1, 2008 - Love overcomes a multitude of sins

Wow...It's March 1st already!  Time seriously has been flying by fast.  So, it's about time to post something new, right?

Today I was reading in my Daily Light devotional what the Bible verses were for today, and one of them was 1 Peter 4:8 - and it says:

"And above all things have fervent love for one another, for 'love will cover a multitude of sins.'"

The Bible seems to talk about how important it is to love one another.  It's become something everyone is used to reading, or hearing about, that I don't think people truly know what it means to act lovingly to one another.  It's totally thrown out of the picture, when it should be a huge priority to everyone.  I will admit that several times I have forgotten to act lovingly towards other people.  And even worse, they don't act lovingly back.  This creates a stone-hearted barrier between people, and God knows why - it's because of the lack of love and respect and forgiveness. 

1 John 4:20 says, "If anyone says, 'I love God,' yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen."  -

Who here ADMITS they have ever had a hateful heart towards a sibling, or a friend?  Yes, they may not be perfect, but love covers a multitude of sins.  Their imperfections do NOT matter anymore.  Do you think God hates us because of our past sins?  Of COURSE not, He's forgiven us and paid the price for our sins.  If we come before God and ask for forgiveness, He has forgiven us freely.  But see, with a person, this is harder to do.  If someone comes to you and asks forgiveness, and you know you've done them wrong as well - ask forgiveness yourself, and then forgive them.  So that basically means - it doesn't matter who you are, what you've done, what they've done - when you're trying to make amends, MAKE amends, not excuses. 

Here's Romans 12, and it's an AMAZING chapter to read.  Read it completely, and you'll understand what we mean.  It's so powerful!

 1 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.

3 For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith. 4 For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function, 5 so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually members of one another. 6 Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; 7 or ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in teaching; 8 he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness.

 9 Let love be without hypocrisy. Abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good. 10 Be kindly affectionate to one another with brotherly love, in honor giving preference to one another; 11 not lagging in diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord; 12 rejoicing in hope, patient in tribulation, continuing steadfastly in prayer; 13 distributing to the needs of the saints, given to hospitality.
14 Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. 16 Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion.
17 Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. 18 If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. 19 Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,”says the Lord. 20 Therefore

    “ If your enemy is hungry, feed him;
      If he is thirsty, give him a drink;
      For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”

 21 Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

It's so refreshing to be comforted by words of wisdom, than by being comforted by foolish words we tell ourselves...Right?

God bless you all!

~Rachel & Jillian~

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Feb. 22, 2008 - "A Letter to my Future Husband"

This is a really sweet contribution we recieved awhile back, and included it in our summer 2006 newsletter.  We later decided to put it on our website, and it became a favorite among members...

A letter to my future husband
By Priceless Purity member, Jaimie Fike
 
This is for all you girls. It's a challenge. A challenge to not only stay pure, but to make strong, clear commitments. It's a challenge to begin loving your husband even now, no matter what you age. I want to challenge you to write a letter to your future husband, and to hold nothing back. Write down what you want and what you are going to give. That way, you will have something tangible to be able to refer to when things get tough. You will be able to look at the letter and know that there is only one guy that that letter is meant for, and it will give you the strength to wait for him. I have done this, and would like to share it with all of you.
 
To the One:
Though I don't know who you are yet, I feel compelled to put on paper what I fell in my heart. You see, I think about you constantly. Do I know you now? Do you think about me as much as I think about you? Have you made the same commitments to me, that I've made to you? These questions plague my heart. I pray that God gives you strength to stand against the temptations of this world. I know it's hard, I struggle too. But because we struggle, that makes the reward that much sweeter in the end. I've promised myself, you and God that I will save myself for you. Not just physically, as so many do, but emotionally as well. I promise to not only save my body for you, but my heart and mind also.. On our wedding day, I don't want my past relationships to cause  all the "what-if's" to run through my mind. I don't want my tears wated on someone who isn't you. I don't want my heart attached to anyone but you. I can only pray that you've done the same.
    I long for the day when God reveals you to me, my lover, my best friend, the person I'll spend the rest of my life with. I pray for you daily, pray that He blesses you, pray that He uses you in a great and mighty way, pray that He gives you comfort and peace through difficult times. I pray for our future together, that it would forever be centered around Him. You see, our love must be of God and only of God, or it could never last, and I can't bear the thought of our love not lasting. I pray that the day comes quickly when I can look into your eyes and know that you're the one. the one I've longed for all my life. It gets harder everyday to wait, but thats what I'll do.Wait.I won't move ahead of God. I'll wait for God, for you. Because I know that on that day, when I look into your eyes and say "I do", all the years of waiting will be worth it. I also know that if you do the same for me, you'd be giving me the best wedding gift you could give, the thing you can only give away once. you'd be giving me yourself, all of yourself, and for that, I'll forever be grateful.
 
ALL my love,
Your Future Wife

(Thank you so much Jaimie, for contributing this beautiful article!  We hope it will touch others as much as it has touched us! - Rachel & Jillian)

May each of you have a blessed day!

~Rachel & Jillian~

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Feb. 15, 2008 - "Three Days To See" by Helen Keller

Just wanted to post this for yall....it's such an amazing essay.  It just makes us think about how much we take for granted...

"Three Days to See"

By Helen Keller

All of us have read thrilling stories in which the hero had only a limited and specified time to live. Sometimes it was as long as a year; sometimes as short as twenty-four hours. But always we were interested in discovering just how the doomed man chose to spend his last days or his last hours. I speak, of course, of free men who have a choice, not condemned criminals whose sphere of activities is strictly delimited.

Such stories set us thinking, wondering what we should do under similar circumstances. What events, what experiences, what associations, should we crowd into those last hours as mortal beings? What happiness should we find in reviewing the past, what regrets?

Sometimes I have thought it would be an excellent rule to live each day as if we should die to-morrow. Such an attitude would emphasize sharply the values of life. We should live each day with a gentleness, a vigor, and a keenness of appreciation which are often lost when time stretches before us in the constant panorama of more days and months and years to come. There are those, of course, who would adopt the epicurean motto of 'Eat, drink, and be merry,' but most people would be chastened by the certainty of impending death.

In stories, the doomed hero is usually saved at the last minute by some stroke of fortune, but almost always his sense of values is changed. He becomes more appreciative of the meaning of life and its permanent spiritual values. It has often been noted that those who live, or have lived, in the shadow of death bring a mellow sweetness to everything they do.

Most of us, however, take life for granted. We know that one day we must die, but usually we picture that day as far in the future. When we are in buoyant health, death is all but unimaginable. We seldom think of it. The days stretch out in an endless vista. So we go about our petty tasks, hardly aware of our listless attitude toward life.

The same lethargy, I am afraid, characterizes the use of all our facilities and senses. Only the deaf appreciate hearing, only the blind realize the manifold blessings that lie in sight. Particularly does this observation apply to those who have lost sight and hearing in adult life. But those who have never suffered impairment of sight or hearing seldom make the fullest use of these blessed faculties. Their eyes and ears take in all sights and sounds hazily, without concentration and with little appreciation. It is the same old story of not being grateful for what we have until we lose it, of not being conscious of health until we are ill.

I have often thought it would be a blessing if each human being were stricken blind and deaf for a few days at some time during his early adult life. Darkness would make him more appreciative of sight; silence would teach him the joys of sound.

Now and then I have tested my seeing friends to discover what they see. Recently I was visited by a very good friend who had just returned from a long walk in the woods, and I asked her what she had observed. 'Nothing in particular,' she replied. I might have been incredulous had I not been accustomed to such responses, for long ago I became convinced that the seeing see little.

How was it possible, I asked myself, to walk for an hour through the woods and see nothing worthy of note? I who cannot see find hundreds of things to interest me through mere touch. I feel the delicate symmetry of a leaf. I pass my hands lovingly about the smooth skin of a silver birch, or the rough, shaggy bark of a pine. In spring I touch the branches of trees hopefully in search of a bud, the first sign of awakening Nature after her winter's sleep. I feel the delightful, velvety texture of a flower, and discover its remarkable convolutions; and something of the miracle of Nature is revealed to me. Occasionally, if I am very fortunate, I place my hand gently on a small tree and feel the happy quiver of a bird in full song. I am delighted to have the cool waters of a brook rush through my open fingers. To me a lush carpet of pine needles or spongy grass is more welcome than the most luxurious Persian rug. To me the pageant of seasons is a thrilling and unending drama, the action of which streams through my finger tips.

At times my heart cries out with longing to see all these things. If I can get so much pleasure from mere touch, how much more beauty must be revealed by sight. Yet, those who have eyes apparently see little. The panorama of color and action which fills the world is taken for granted. It is human, perhaps, to appreciate little that which have and to long for that which we have not, but it is a great pity that in the world of light the gift of sight is used only as a mere convenience rather than as a means of adding fullness to life.

If I were the president of a university I should establish a compulsory course in 'How to Use Your Eyes'. The professor would try to show his pupils how they could add joy to their lives by really seeing what passes unnoticed before them. He would try to awake their dormant and sluggish faculties.

II

Perhaps I can best illustrate by imagining what I should most like to see if I was given the use of my eyes, say, for just three days. And while I am imagining, suppose you, too, set your mind to work on the problem of how to work on the problem of how you would use your own eyes if you had only three days to see. If with the oncoming darkness if the third night you knew that the sun would never rise for you again, how would you spend those three intervening days? What would you most want to let your gaze rest upon?

I, naturally, should want most to see the things which have become dear to me through my years of darkness. You, too, would want to let your eyes rest long on the things that have become dear to you so that you could take the memory of them with you into the night that loomed before you.

If, by some miracle, I were granted three seeing days, to be followed by a relapse into darkness, I should divide the period into three parts.

On the first day, I should want to see the people whose kindness and gentleness and companionship have made my life worth living. First I should like to gaze long upon the face of my dear teacher, Mrs. Ann Sullivan Macy, who came to me when I was a child and opened the outer world to me. I should want not merely to see the outline of her face, so that I could cherish it in my memory, but to study that face and find in it the living evidence of the sympathetic tenderness and patience with which she accomplished the difficult task of my education. I should like to see in her eyes that strength of character which has enabled her to stand firm in the face of difficulties, and that compassion for all humanity which she has revealed to me so often.

I do not know what it is to see into the heart of a friend through that 'window of the soul,' the eye. I can only 'see' through my finger tips the outline of a face. I can detect laughter, sorrow, and many other obvious emotions. I know my friends from the feel of their faces. But I cannot really picture their personalities, of course, through the thoughts they express to me, through whatever of their actions are revealed to me. But I am denied that deeper understanding of them which I am sure would come through sight of them, through watching their reactions to various expressed and circumstances, through noting the immediate and fleeting reactions of their eyes and countenance.

Friends who are near to me I know well, because through the months and years they reveal themselves to me in all their phases; but of casual friends I have only an incomplete impression, an impression gained from handclasp, from spoken words which I take from their lips with my finger tips, or which they tap into the palm of my hand.

How much easier, how much more satisfying it is for you who can see to grasp quickly the essential qualities of another person by watching the subtleties of expression, the quiver of a muscle, the flutter of a hand. But does it ever occur to you to use your sight to see the inner nature of a friend or acquaintance? Do not most of you seeing people grasp casually the outward features of a face and let it go at that?

For instance, can you describe accurately the faces of five good friends? Some of you can, but many cannot. As an experiment, I have questioned husbands of long standing about the color of their wives' eyes, and often they express embarrassed confusion and admit that they so not know. And, incidentally, it is a chronic complaint of wives that their husbands do not notice new dresses, new hats, and changes in household arrangements.

The eyes of seeing persons soon become accustomed to the routine of their surroundings, and they actually see only the startling and spectacular. But even in viewing the most spectacular sights the eyes are lazy. Court records reveal every day how inaccurately 'eyewitnesses' see. A given event will be 'seen' in several different ways by as many witnesses. Some see more than others, but few see everything that is within the range of their vision.

Oh, the things that I should see if I had the power of sight for just three days!

The first day would be a busy one. I should call to me all my dear friends and look long into their faces, imprinting upon my mind the outward evidence of the beauty that is within them. I should let my eyes rest, too, on the face of a baby, so that I could catch a vision of the eager, innocent beauty which precedes the individuals consciousness of the conflicts which life develops.

And I should like to look into the loyal, trusting eyes of my dogs - the grave, canny little Scottie, Darkie, and the stalwart, understanding Great Dane, Helga, whose warm, tender, and playful friendships are so comforting to me.

On that busy first day I should also view the small simple things of my home. I want to see the warm colors in the rugs under my feet, the pictures on the walls, the intimate trifles that transform a house into a home. My eyes would rest respectfully on the books in raised type which I have read, but they would be more eagerly interested in the printed books which seeing people can read, for during the long night of my life the books I have read and those which have been read to me have built themselves into a great shining lighthouse, revealing to me the deepest channels of human life and the human spirit.

In the afternoon of that first seeing day, I should take a long walk in the woods and intoxicate my eyes on the beauties of the world of Nature, trying desperately to absorb in a few hours the vast splendor which is constantly unfolding itself to those who can see. On the way home from my woodland jaunt my path would lie near a farm so that I might see the patient horses ploughing in the field (perhaps I should see only a tractor!) and the serene content of men living close to the soil. And I should pray for the glory of a colorful sunset.

When dusk had fallen, I should experience the double delight of being able to see by artificial light, which the genius of man has created to extend the power of his sight when Nature decrees darkness.

In the night of that first day of sight, I should not be able to sleep, so full would be my mind of the memories of the day.

III

The next day - the second day of sight - I should arise with the dawn and see the thrilling miracle by which night is transformed into day. I should behold with awe the magnificent panorama of light with which the sun awakens the sleeping earth.

This day I should devote to a hasty glimpse of the world, past and present. I should want to see the pageant of man's progress, the kaleidoscope of the ages. How can so much compressed into one day? Through the museums, of course. Often I have visited the New York Museum of Natural History to touch with my hands many of the objects there exhibited, but I have longed to see with my eyes the condensed history of the earth and its inhabitants displayed there - animals and the races of men pictured in their native environment; gigantic carcasses of dinosaurs and mastodons which roamed the earth long before man appeared, with his tiny stature and powerful brain, to conquer the animal kingdom; realistic presentations of the processes of evolution in animals, and in the implements which man has used to fashion for himself a secure home on this planet; and a thousand and one other aspects of natural history.

I wonder how many readers of this article have viewed this panorama of the face of living things as pictured in that inspiring museum. Many, of course, have not had the opportunity, but, I am sure that many who have had the opportunity have not made use of it. There, indeed, is a place to use your eyes. You who can see can spend many fruitful days there, but I, with my imaginary three days of sight, could only take a hasty glimpse, and pass on.

My next stop would be the Metropolitan Museum of Art, for just as the Museum of Natural History reveals the material aspects of the world, so does the Metropolitan show the myriad facets of the human spirit. Throughout the history of humanity the urge to artistic expression has been almost as powerful as the urge for food, shelter, and procreation. And here, in the vast chambers of the Metropolitan Museum, is unfolded before me the spirit of Egypt, Greece, and Rome, as expressed in their art. I know well through my hands the sculptured gods and goddesses of the ancient Nile-land. I have a few copies of Parthenon friezes, and I have sensed the rhythmic beauty of charging Athenian warriors. Apollos and Venuses and the winged victory of Samothrace are friends of my finger tips. The gnarled, bearded features of Homer are dear to me, for he, too, knew blindness.

My hands have lingered upon the living marvel of Roman sculpture as well as that of later generations. I have passed my hands over a plaster cast of Michelangelo's inspiring and heroic Moses; I have sensed the power of Rodin; I have been awed by the devoted spirit of Gothic wood carving. These arts which can be touched have meaning for me, but even they were meant to be seen rather than felt, and I can only guess at the beauty which remains hidden from me. I can admire the simple lines of a Greek vase, but its figured decorations are lost to me.

So on this, my second day of sight, I should try to probe into the soul of man through his art. The things I knew through touch I should now see. More splendid still, the whole magnificent world of painting would be opened to me, from the Italian Primitives, with their serene religious devotion, to the Moderns, with their feverish visions. I should look deep into the canvases of Raphael, Leonardo Da Vinci, Titian, Rembrandt. I should want to feast my eyes upon the warm colors of Veronese, study the mysteries of El Greco, catch a new vision of Nature from Corot. Oh, there is so much rich meaning and beauty in the art of the ages for you who have eyes to see!

Upon my short visit to this temple of art I should not be able to review a fraction of that great world of art which is open to you. I should be able to get only a superficial impression. Artists tell me that for a deep and true appreciation of art one must educate the eye. One must learn from experience to weigh the merits of line, of composition, of form and color. If I had eyes, how happily would I embark upon so fascinating a study! Yet I am told that, to many of you who have eyes to see, the world of art is a dark night, unexplored and unilluminated.

It would be with extreme reluctance that I should leave the Metropolitan Museum, which contains the key to beauty - a beauty so neglected. Seeing persons, however, do not need a Metropolitan to find this key to beauty. The same key lies waiting in smaller museums, and in books on the shelves of even small libraries. But naturally, in my limited time of imaginary sight, I should choose the place where the key unlocks the greatest treasures in the shortest time.

The evening of my second day of sight I should spend at a theatre or at the movies. Even now I often attend theatrical performances of all sorts, but the action of the play must be spelled into my hand by a companion. But how I should like to see with my own eyes the fascinating figure of Hamlet, or the gusty Falstaff amid colorful Elizabethan trappings! How I should like to follow each movement of the graceful Hamlet, each strut of the hearty Falstaff! And since I could see only one play, I should be confronted by a many-horned dilemma, for there are scores of plays I should want to see. You who have eyes can see any you like. How many of you, I wonder, when you gaze at a play, a movie, or any spectacle, realize and give thanks for the miracle of sight which enables you to enjoy its color, grace, and movement?

I cannot enjoy the beauty rythmic movement except in a sphere restricted to the touch of my hands. I can vision only dimly the grace of a Pavlowa, although I know something of the delight of rhythm, for often I can sense the beat of music as it vibrates through the floor. I can well imagine that cadenced motion must be one of the most pleasing sights in the world. I have been able to gather something of this by tracing with my fingers the lines in sculptured marble; if this static grace can be so lovely, how much more acute must be the thrill of seeing grace in motion.

One of my dearest memories is of the time when Joseph Jefferson allowed me to touch his face and hands as he went through some of the gestures and speeches of his beloved Rip Van Winkle. I was able to catch thus a meager glimpse of the world of drama, and I shall never forget the delight of that moment. But, oh, how much I must miss, and how much pleasure you seeing ones can derive from watching and hearing the interplay of speech and movement in the unfolding of a dramatic performance! If I could see only one play, I should know how to picture in my mind the action of a hundred plays which I have read or had transferred to me through the medium of manual alphabet.

So, through the evening of my second imaginary day of sight, the great figures of dramatic literature would crowd sleep from my eyes.

IV

The following morning, I should again greet the dawn, anxious to discover new delights, for I am sure that, for those who have eyes which really see, the dawn of each day must be a perpetually new revelation of beauty.

This, according to the terms of my imagined miracle, is to be my third and last day of sight. I shall have no time to waste in regrets or longings; there is too much to see. The first day I devoted to my friends, animate and inanimate. The second revealed to me the history of man and Nature. To-day I shall spend in the workday world of the present, amid the haunts of men going about the business of life. And where one can find so many activities and conditions of men as in New York? So the city becomes my destination.

I start from my home in the quiet little suburb of Forest Hills, Long Island. Here, surrounded by green lawns, trees, and flowers, are neat little houses, happy with the voices and movements of wives and children, havens of peaceful rest for men who toil in the city. I drive across the lacy structure of steel which spans the East River, and I get a new and startling vision of the power and ingenuity of the mind of man. Busy boats chug and scurry about the river - racy speed, boats, stolid, snorting tugs. If I had long days of sight ahead, I should spend many of them watching the delightful activity upon the river.

I look ahead, and before me rise the fantastic towers of New York, a city that seems to have stepped from the pages of a fairy story. What an awe-inspiring sight, these glittering spires, these vast banks of stone and steel - sculptures such as the gods might build for themselves! This animated picture is a part of the lives of millions of people every day. How many, I wonder, give it so much as a second glance? Very few, I fear. Their eyes are blind to this magnificent sight because it is so familiar to them.

I hurry to the top of one of those gigantic structures, the Empire State Building, for there, a short time ago, I 'saw' the city below through the eyes of my secretary. I am anxious to compare my fancy with reality. I am sure I should not be disappointed in the panorama spread out before me, for to me it would be a vision of another world.

Now I begin my rounds of the city. First, I stand at a busy corner, merely looking at people, trying by sight of them to understand something of their lives. I see smiles, and I am happy. I see serious determination, and I am proud. I see suffering, and I am compassionate.

I stroll down Fifth Avenue. I throw my eyes out of focus, so that I see no particular object but a seething kaleidoscope of color. I am certain that the colors of women's dresses moving in a throng must be a gorgeous spectacle of which I should never tire. But perhaps if I had sight I should be like most other women - too interested in styles and the cut of individual dresses to give much attention to the splendor of color in the mass. And I am convinced, too, that I should become an inveterate window shopper, for it must be a delight to the eye to view the myriad articles of beauty on display.

From Fifth Avenue I make a tour of the city - to Park Avenue, to the slums, to factories, to parks where children play. I take a stay-at-home trip abroad by visiting the foreign quarters. Always my eyes are open wide to all the sights of both happiness and misery so that I may probe deep and add to my understanding of how people work and live. My heart is full of the images of people and things. My eye passes lightly over no single trifle; it strives to touch and hold closely each thing its gaze rests upon. Some sights are pleasant, filling the heart with happiness; but some are miserably pathetic. To these latter I do not shut my eyes, for they, too are part of life. To close the eye on them is to close the heart and mind.

My third day of sight is drawing to an end. Perhaps there are many serious pursuits to which I should devote the few remaining hours, but I am afraid that on the evening of that last day I should run away to the theatre, to a hilariously funny play, so that I might appreciate the overtones of comedy in the human spirit.

At midnight my temporary respite from blindness would cease, and permanent night would close in on me again. Naturally in those three short days I should not have seen all I wanted to see. Only when darkness had again descended upon me should I realize how much I had left unseen. But my mind would be so overcrowded with glorious memories that I should have little time for regrets. Thereafter the touch of every object would bring a glowing memory of how that object looked.

Perhaps this short outline of how I should spend three days of sight does not agree with the programme you would set for yourself if you knew that you were about to be stricken blind. I am, however, sure that if you actually faced that fate your eyes would open to things you had never seen before, storing up memories for the long night ahead. You would use your eyes as never before. Everything you saw would become dear to you. Your eyes would touch and embrace every object that came within your range of vision. Then, at last, you would really see, and a new world of beauty would open itself before you.

I who am blind can give one hint to those who see - one admonition to those who would make full use of the gift of sight: Use your eyes as if tomorrow you would be stricken blind. And the same method can be applied to other senses. Hear the music of voices, the song of a bird, the mighty strains of an orchestra, as if you would be stricken deaf to-morrow. Touch each object you want to touch as if tomorrow your tactile sense would fail. Smell the perfume of flowers, taste with relish each morsel, as if tomorrow you could never smell and taste again. Make the most of every sense; glory in all the facets of pleasure and beauty which the world reveals to you through the several means of contact which Nature provides. But of all the senses, I am sure that sight must be the most delightful.

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Feb. 8, 2008 - Interesting Video...

Surfing the web, I came across this video (part of one of his sermons).  I just wanted to post it on here, as a reminder to be CAREFUL what you believe.  Even when it's coming from a powerful "God-filled" source sometimes, it can be deceptive. 

 
http://youtube.com/watch?v=di9-PebV634&feature=related
 
Thousands of people are being influenced by this man who gives false Scripture references...
 
Discern for yourselves, and find answers in the Bible.
 
~Jillian
 
P.S. ~ You'll notice that at the bottom, there are subtitles pointing out his mistakes.

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Jan. 24, 2008 - Of the Imitation of Christ

Hey Everyone,

  Here is an excerpt from "The Imitation of Christ" by Thomas à Kempis.  It's really a great concept to keep in your mind...

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Of the Imitation of Christ

Thomas à Kempis

He that follows Me shall not walk in darkness, says the Lord (John 8:12).
  These are the words of Christ, by which we are urged to imitate His life and virtues, if we wish to be truly enlightened and freed from all blindness of heart.
  Therefore, let it be our chief business to meditate upon the life of Jesus Christ.
  The teaching of Christ excels all the teachings of the saints; and if a man have His spirit, he shall find therein a hidden manna.
But it so happens that many hear the Gospel frequently and are little affected, because they lack the spirit of Christ.
  If you would understand Christ's words fully and taste them truly, you must strive to form your whole life after His pattern.
  What good do you get by disputing learnedly about the Trinity, if you be lacking in humility and are therefore displeasing to the Trinity?
  Verily, sublime words do not make a man holy and just; it is a virtuous life that makes him dear to God.
  I  would rather feel compunction than know how to define it.
  If you knew the whole Bible by heart, and the sayings of all the philosophers, what would all that profit you without the love of God and His grace?
  Vanity of vanities and all is vanity (Ecclesiastes 1:2), except loving God and serving Him only.
  This is the highest wisdom: to despise the world and aim at the Kingdom of Heaven.
  It is vanity there for to seek perishable riches and to rely on them.
  It is vanity also to pursue honours and raise yourself to a high dignity.
  It is vanity to follow the lusts of the flesh and to desire what which hereafter will bring greievous punishment.
  It is vanity to wish for a long life and care little about a good life.
  It is vanity to attend only to the present life and not to be hastening thither where abides everlasting joy.
  Often call to mind the proverb: The eye is not sated with seeing, nor is the ear filled with hearing (Ecclesiastes 1:8).
  Study therefore to wean your heart from the love of visible things, and to attend rather to things invisible.  For the man who indulges his sensual nature, sullies his concience and loses the grace of God.

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Jan. 19, 2008 - ~Certificate of Purity~

 

 
Certificate of Purity
...Making my lifestyle pure and pleasing to the Creator...
 
"YOU WERE BOUGHT WITH A PRICE: THEREFORE, HONOR GOD WITH YOUR BODY"
1 Corinthians 6:20
 
 
Purity is not just physical; it's mental and spiritual as well. Our prayer is that each of you will not only live by this commitment, but understand it as well. That as you grow you will embrace what is pure and right as you reject the temptations thrown at you by the evil one. That you will come to know the Father as your best friend and reach beyond the flesh and it's lusts...
 
Being pure means obstaining from physical lusts and actions, and reaching past all that entangles us in this world! It is important to know that as children of God we must not only believe in the importance of purity, but live it out as well.
"It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable" -1 Thessalonians 4:2-4
 
"Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body." -1 Corinthians 6:18
 
"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people." -Ephesians 5:3
 
"Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry." -Colossians 3:5
 
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart." -Hebrews 12:1-3
 
"Blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God" -Matthew 5:8
 
"...Do not share in the sins of others. Keep yourself pure." -1 Timothy 5:22
 
"Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart." -2 Timothy 2:22
 
I ___________________ agree to remain pure until marriage. To flee from sexual immorality and to look to Jesus as spotless lamb that takes away all of my sin. I will look beyond my past and live this commitment out to the best of my ability. I will remain pure like the Bride of Christ (the church) and save myself for my future husband. I also commit to praying for him and his salvation. Let God be known in my life...let God give me patience and purity.
 
 
 
 
 
 
Written and edited by Priceless Purity (www.pricelesspurity.org, groups.msn.com/pricelesspurity).
 

 

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Jan. 5, 2008 - New Site!

Hello everyone!

  Well, after months of trying to get the Priceless Purity official site up, and many disappointments, things are finally pulling together!  Now that we have some official help, we should have the site up and running (Lord willing) within the month.  In the mean time, please keep visiting our site!

  God Bless All!

~Rachel & Jillian~

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Nov. 29, 2007 - It's OUT!

We're happy to say that the Fall issue of Priceless Purity was finally sent out on November 24th!  It was quite a long one, and a big improvement, from our last few issues!  We have to thank all of you that helped out by sharing or contributing articles.  We also have to apologize for leaving some contributions out accidently.  It was by no means intentional at all - we just overlooked it in our inbox and folders.  (Which we've finally sorted out!)  Our winter edition will be including all the articles that got "left out" of this one.  Remember, if you have anything to share, send it on to us!

  God bless,

~ Rachel & Jillian ~

 

Minor notes:

  • To those of you that have changed your e-mail address - please let us know!  A number of our subscibers do not have valid e-mail addresses!
  • If you've missed out on this issue, and you'd like to request a copy, please write to PricelessPurity@yahoo.com, and let us know! 
  • Don't forget to check out our site at: www.PricelessPurity.org There you can read about several different topics, and interact on our message boards!

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