My oldest son has developed a horrible attitude towards his next youngest brother over the past year. It had appeared for a whlie a few years back as well but after we did a Biblical study on pride my son quickly realized how he was placing himself above his little brother by treating him poorly (not wanting him near him at all) and that was the end.  But slowly this attitude has crept back and no matter how many heart to hearts I have with Him or what Scripture I bring to him it remains.  I am at a loss for how to deal with this or even if this is my territory or if I leave this to the Holy Spirit.  I have brought truth to him and he knows he is wrong and can admit that he is wrong, so where so I go from here? There are other times as well with my kids when I wonder if I am trying to take the place of the Holy Spirit in their lives. Do any of you struggle with letting the Holy Spirit bring conviction and true repentance to your children's hearts? I am constantly trying to take this upon myself only to end in failure and frustration.  This is always my first clue that I have taken on a burden that God did not give to me.

Would love to hear your thoughts and any advice!