I am challenged very much in the issue of maintaining a tidy, organized household. I have had these tendencies since I was a young girl. I spent so much time studying and reading that my room was always a mess. Times seem to have not changed much as I feel as if I am fighting against the currents of a very strong river as I put things away and tidy up and they almost immediately get messed up again. I feel like I am either too busy on other chores or working from home to organize or I would rather be spending time with my children. Yet, I know that I should maintain a neat and organized household. Like the apostle Paul though, I constantly find myself doing that which I know I should not do. I have prayed on this issue and God just tells me to keep trying.
Of course, I realize that organizational skills and habits come more easily to some than to others. You natuarally organized types may not be able to help me because I have talked to many of "you people" and it is (rightfully) very difficult for you to imagine how a person could be so messy. You may not have had to struggle as much with the issue. So my question is this: for those of you out there who have a temperament that leads you tend to be messy (perhaps other creative types) but have overcome that, what tips and tricks can you offer from a Christian perspective to help me overcome my tendency to disorganization? |
� Jun. 28, 2005 - Taming the beast
I feel your frusteration! I won't go as far as saying that I have had complete victory over this, because our house sometimes seems to have a mind of its own. But one thing that has really worked is to anyalyze the mess. Where is your house the most messy and what does that mess consist of?
For example, I've noticed that for the last two weeks we have been putting things on the dining room table. On closer inspection, it's usually my purse, my work bag, some mail, and paperwork that hasn't been completed yet. This means that 1. these things don't have a home 2. their home is too inconvenient so I toss stuff on the dining room table instead or 3. I'm just being lazy about putting things away.
In this case it was a combination of all three. My husband hung two hooks in the coat closet for my purse and work bag. Now they have a home. The mail has a home but it isn't working well for oversized pieces, so I need to get a bigger basket. And paperwork has an organized and convenient spot in the office, but I've been lazy about getting it there.
Even if you have lots of messy "pockets" in the house, going through one at a time can really help you conquer the house.
Blessings to you, my sister.