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� Jun. 28, 2005 - Working on Order in the Home

I am challenged very much in the issue of maintaining a tidy, organized household.  I have had these tendencies since I was a young girl.  I spent so much time studying and reading that my room was always a mess. Times seem to have not changed much as I feel as if I am fighting against the currents of a very strong river as I put things away and tidy up and they almost immediately get messed up again.  I feel like I am either too busy on other chores or working from home to organize or I would rather be spending time with my children. Yet, I know that I should maintain a neat and organized household.  Like the apostle Paul though, I constantly find myself doing that which I know I should not do. I have prayed on this issue and God just tells me to keep trying.

 

Of course, I realize that organizational skills and habits come more easily to some than to others. You natuarally organized types may not be able to help me because I have talked to many of "you people" and it is (rightfully) very difficult for you to imagine how a person could be so messy. You may not have had to struggle as much with the issue.  So my question is this: for those of you out there who have a temperament that leads you tend to be messy (perhaps other creative types) but have overcome that, what tips and tricks can you offer from a Christian perspective to help me overcome my tendency to disorganization?

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� Jun. 28, 2005 - Taming the beast

Posted by forHisglory
Victoria,
I feel your frusteration! I won't go as far as saying that I have had complete victory over this, because our house sometimes seems to have a mind of its own. But one thing that has really worked is to anyalyze the mess. Where is your house the most messy and what does that mess consist of?

For example, I've noticed that for the last two weeks we have been putting things on the dining room table. On closer inspection, it's usually my purse, my work bag, some mail, and paperwork that hasn't been completed yet. This means that 1. these things don't have a home 2. their home is too inconvenient so I toss stuff on the dining room table instead or 3. I'm just being lazy about putting things away.

In this case it was a combination of all three. My husband hung two hooks in the coat closet for my purse and work bag. Now they have a home. The mail has a home but it isn't working well for oversized pieces, so I need to get a bigger basket. And paperwork has an organized and convenient spot in the office, but I've been lazy about getting it there.

Even if you have lots of messy "pockets" in the house, going through one at a time can really help you conquer the house.

Blessings to you, my sister.
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� Jun. 28, 2005 - Now that you mentioned it...

Posted by
we also have a messy pocket at a table near our front door. I will ask my husband to put some hooks in our front closet as well. Thanks for the tip!

Edited by VictoriaCarrington on Jun. 28, 2005 at 5:34 AM
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� Jun. 28, 2005 - Join Us Tomorrow!

Posted by 3FoldChord
Tomorrow (Wednesday) Kris will host a workshop on advice and tips to be better organized. Which I am SO needing! (In the Chat room)

I was naturally organized and tidy until kids. Then I TOTALLY changed my perspective. I am an ALL or NOTHING person. Before kids I had ALL day to clean and it was ALL that really needed to be done.... now I am ALL about the kids...LOL.
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� Jun. 28, 2005 - I am so challenged here as well...

Posted by
Something has changed in the past week on this subject...I am inspired and I am doing everything (cooking, cleaning, reorganizing) with a joyful heart. So I can't take exactly take credit for it! I feel like God is just leading me to get a hold of the household in a different way. I feel so much peace about it! I am usually so stressed about the condition of my home that I don't want to have people visit and I just get overwhelmed on a regular basis. That stress is hard on the entire family.
I pray about it every morning! Now, I have great hope for a clean, tidy, organized home and more importantly, a peaceful little haven for my family.
Keep praying about it!

Edited by amyjl on Jun. 28, 2005 at 11:15 AM
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� Jun. 28, 2005 - organizing

Posted by Anonymous
I find the free program at www.flylady.com to be very useful.
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� Jun. 29, 2005 - A tidy house... mmmm

Posted by belindaletchford
This blogging seems to have interrupted any serious effort I intended in that field!

I too love Flylady. I have read lots and lots of books on this topic but Flylady gets you straight in there working on stuff without having to think!

I think the biggest thing that helps me keep ontop of my house (though it could always be cleaner of course!) is that the children help me with a lot. Not sure of the ages of your children though!

This has prompted my conscious ... I must go and hang the laundry!
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