Tuesday, November 28, 2006 - Answer to Princess
Ok, Princess, this is some really tough stuff here. I have to honestly tell you that I don't know. But God does know. Maybe, just maybe, God doesn't want you to be concerned with boys right now and is trying to make it easier on you. Maybe the right guy just hasn't come along yet. There's nothing wrong with waiting.
Guys that go for the easy girls aren't the guys you want to go out with anyway. I don't know about the guy that asked you out. I don't know his situation at work or at home or if he's in school or not. He might just not have had time. When you say you "went out" does that mean on a date or agreeing to be boyfriend/girlfriend?
I also don't know why guys don't think they're good enough to be your friend, if that's the case. But in all reality, it's probably not the case. Just be who you are in Christ, let His love shine out through you, and you try to be a friend to them. Not a flirt or a person trying to get special attention, but just a friend.
And don't let your pride get hurt. Maybe it's just not the right time. Don't compare yourself with others. Always remember that you are precious and beautiful to God and He created you exactly the way He wanted to, and He has a plan for your life. He knows what's best for you. And like I said at the beginning, God may want you focused on other things. Focus on Jesus, focus on falling in love with Jesus and living your life for Him. Focus on reading your Bible. Focus on being who God made you to be. The right guy will come along.
Danya <><
Comments
Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - ANSWER TO PRINCESS
Posted by Anonymous
SALVE:)
Preech it preecher amen:)
Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - ANSWER TO PRINCESS
Posted by Anonymous
SALVE:)
Preech it preecher amen:)
Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - ANSWER TO PRINCESS
Posted by Anonymous
SALVE:)
Preech it preecher amen:)
Wednesday, November 29, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by BlackRose
Hey, I have something I'd like to say that concerns what "god's princess" wrote.
I've found, that sometimes guys go for the flirty girls because, its eisier and less likely to get hurt. Like, a LOT of guys are afraid of asking a girl out. They are afraid of rejection. They know a REALLY flirty girl is less likely to say "no" to them than a more reserved girl. So of course, they go for the flirty, obviouse girls.
Also, I have found, that a lot of boys want to know if YOU are interested. Being flirty, and obviouse, thats what you usually do around boys you like. So, when young men see girls flirting with them, they think "oh, she might like me" and they ask them out. When you DON'T make it OBVIOUSE, to them, they don't know weather you like them or not. So they don't ask you out.
Maybe boys find you intimidateing. Maybe, you should be more obviouse if you like a boy. Have you ever considered asking a boy out yourself, instead of waiting on them?
Thats my advice baised on mine and others I know experiance, but my experiance is sort of limited, So you might not want to trust my advice.
Thursday, November 30, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
Thanks Danya. I really do know all of that stuff that you said......it was really just bothering me and I needed to say it somewhere and I thought maybe I could get some reiteration (a little reminder you might say) of where my focus needs to be.
Princess
Saturday, December 2, 2006 - Hello
Posted by totustuus
Hi, Danya, great blog! You gave some really good advice...*adds to friends list*
I'll stop by again soon! :)
In Christ,
Sylvia
