If you are thinking about homeschooling…..

This is a good article written by Michael Smith, president of HSLDA, for the Washington Times.

With back-to-school season in full swing, many parents are reflecting on the educational choices they are making. Although the vast majority of parents still send their children to public schools, 10 percent to 12 percent of parents choose private education. One part of private education is the estimated 2 million children who are homeschooled, accounting for at least 3 percent of the school-age population.

For parents considering homeschooling, three questions often are asked. First, is it legal? Second, how do I do it? Third, will it ruin my kids?

The answer to the first question is straightforward. Homeschooling is formally recognized in all 50 states—although it wasn’t always this way. When the Home School Legal Defense Association was founded in 1983, many states required parents to be teacher-certified before they could teach their children. Through the advocacy of homeschoolers, in 1993, Michigan became the 50th state to recognize a parent’s right to homeschool.

Today, due to the incredible growth of homeschooling, there are countless curriculum providers as well as homeschool support groups available to help answer the second question. Two great resources to aid in choosing the right curriculum are Mary Pride’s Complete Guide to Getting Started Homeschooling, and Kathy Duffy’s 100 Picks for Homeschooling Curriculum: Choosing the Right Curriculum for Your Child.

While choosing a curriculum that suits the individual needs of your child is important, finding a homeschool support group is probably more important. This can be done by searching online, contacting a statewide homeschool organization, or visiting www.HSLDA.org. Speaking with veteran homeschoolers is the best way to discover whether homeschooling could be a good fit.

Another aspect of “how to home-school” is determining how much time it will take to teach each child. The answer is a lot less than you might think. In a traditional classroom, there are often distractions and discipline problems that waste classroom instruction time. The opposite is the case in a home environment where the child receives one-on-one instruction and can focus on the task at hand.

Consequently, many parents in the elementary years find that children often need only a few hours to accomplish their work for the day. This is also true when educating several children. Many parents arrange their schedule so older children work independently in the morning while you work individually with your younger children, and then while the younger children are taking time off in the afternoon, you can spend time with the older children. Again, because you are covering the material so much faster, you may still spend only three hours of instruction on a given day.

The third question that’s often asked is whether children will be “ruined” by home-schooling. In other words, what about socialization?

Veteran homeschoolers know the question has a false premise. It assumes children are better off spending hour upon hour with children their own age. Wouldn’t the next generation have more success if they spent more time with a range of responsible adults who can show them how to behave in the real world?

Homeschooling allows children to develop at their own pace in a world that most closely resembles where they will spend the majority of their adult lives. It’s a recipe for success and one that is also borne out in the research. The 2004 study Homeschooling Grows Up, conducted by the National Home Education Research Institute, shows that homeschooled children are more involved in their communities than the average public school child.

While all types of children benefit from homeschooling, this method of education is particularly effective for struggling learners. There is testimony after testimony of parents who have pulled older children out of public school special education programs and seen them thrive.

Gone are the comparisons, labels, social pressures and distractions a regular classroom brings. Parents can offer their children individualized education, flexibility, encouragement and support, which is ideal for any child, but especially for children who have learning disabilities, are medically sensitive or have attention deficit disorders.

Choosing to homeschool is a big decision and requires a significant commitment, but the rewards are great because the overwhelming majority of homeschooled children grow up to be well-educated, and well-rounded citizens.

For more information on home-schooling, visit www.youcanhomeschool.org.

Romancing your Child's Heart

I love the book Romancing Your Child’s Heart, by Monte Swan!  Here are a few quotes from chapter 10:

For every little boy or girl in our world, there’s a father or mother who can get so focused on achieving life’s little goals that he or she fails to see the opportunities to make their child prince or princess for an hour, or a day- and do an eternal work in their hearts.  Our noble missions, even legitimate ministry involvements, steal time that ought to be given to our children. 

In Endangered Minds, Jane Healy wrote that an executive mind is created through dialogue between a parent and a child.  The disappearance of the dining room table correlates with the appearance of what she terms "McLanguage."  Verbal fast food, she says, consists mainly of inflection and gesture:  "Its like (shrug).  You know, like…."  Healy adds " Because the development of human language is the foundation for the development of human thought, this sloppy syntax is a symptom of a serious problem- kids don’t think".  When adults engage in passionate philosophical conversation, children are all ears, and when we ask them their opinions, the answers are often profound. 

When our children see, hear, smell taste , and feel the Word of God, it becomes part of them.  As they participate through our traditions, they enter the Story.  This isn’t some make-believe play-it’s reality for a Christian, because it connects us to eternity past and brings God’s mighty works throughout creation and history into our lives.  We should be saturating the atmosphere of our homes with God’s presence. 

Not Me Monday

This is an idea that I got off a blog I like at    http://raisingolives.com/ .  It is a fun way to look at the mistakes, tough times, funny accidents and just life that happens everyday! 

Tonight, I did not feed my family watermelon and cheese and crackers for supper.  Nope, not me!  Nutrition is very important to our family and we always have a perfectly presented nutritious meal!

Although geese have taken over our yard while we were out of town this weekend, I did not shoot  BB’s at them today and my husband did not fire Roman candles at them when he got home from work.  That is inhumane and possibly illegal. 

On the way out of my inlaw’s neighborhood yesterday, I did not see 2 adirondack chairs sitting on the curb and I would never ask my inlaws to go get them and store them for me until I came back into town.  No, I already have 2 adirondack chairs- why would I need more??  I am NOT someone who likes to collect other peoples junk. 

Unfortunately, I could go on and on about the crazy things I do- I mean don’t do.  I’ll save some for next Monday!

recipes

Blueberry Spinach Salad

1/2 c extra virgin olive oil
1/4 c raspberry vinegar (I used red wine vinegar)
2 tbsp Dijon mustard
1 tsp sugar ( I used agave)
1/2 tsp salt
10 oz spinach, torn
4 oz. blue cheese ( I used parm, but will try blue next time)
1 c fresh blueberries
1/2 c pecans, toasted and chopped( I used walnuts)

Combine oil, vinegar, mustard, sugar and salt in a jar and shake well.  Toss in a bowl w/ spinach and half of cheese, blueberries and nuts.  Toss gently w/ enough dressing to coat.  Garnish w/ remaining cheese, berries, and nuts.

For mothers….

      "Men say that into the strings of some old Cremona violin the life of the master who once played upon it has passed, so that it as an impersonal soul, breathing out at every skillful touch.  This is only a beautiful poetic fancy.  But when a little child in its mother’s bosom is loved, nursed, caressed, held close to her heart, prayed over, wept over, talked with for days, weeks, months, years, it is no mere fancy that the mother’s life has indeed passed into the child’s soul.  What it becomes is determined by what the mother is.  The early years settle what its character will be, and these are the mother’s years. 

     O mothers of young children, I bow before you in reverence.  Your work is most holy.  You are fashioning the destinies of immmortal souls.  The powers folded up in the little ones that you hushed to sleep in your bosoms last night are powers that shall exist forever.  You are preparing them for their immortal destiny and influence.  Be faithful.  Take up your sacred burden reverently  Be sure that your heart is pure and that your life is sweet and clean.  The Persian apologue says that the lump of clay was fragrant because it had lain on a rose.  Let your life be as the rose, and then your child as it lies upon your bosom will obsorb the fragrance.  If there is no sweetness in the rose the clay will not be perfumed. "

The Family
1882

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