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• Thursday, June 19, 2008 - Howdy!

Posted By Melonie Kennedy in Getting To Know You
Time for an update!

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• Jun. 5, 2008 - Encouraging Site I Found.....

Posted By Belinda

I was searching for information on Christian Unschooling and came across this site which I look forward to exploring more.

Thought some of you might enjoy this site as well:

Life Led Learning Site

 

Love in Jesus,

~Belinda~

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• Jun. 5, 2008 - Can Christians Unschool?

Posted By Belinda

I came across a very good article today and wanted to share it.  Everyone must follow God's Will and Direction in the education of their children.  But, sometimes, I think it is easier just 'to go with the flow' and do it the way everyone else does instead of truly seeking God and asking for His opinion.

This article opens your heart to Scripture, the uniqueness of each child, and the possibility that there might 'be another way' than the traditional educational system's idea.

Read this if you'd like some encouragement on days that seem reallly 'unschoolish' and see what you think:

Can Christians Unschool?

**God Bless You as you live and learn with your child!**

                ~Belinda~

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• Jun. 1, 2008 - What Are My 5 Children Up To?

Posted By Belinda

From time to time it is nice to just sit and ponder the ways, habits and conversations of my children.  They change so fast, physically, spiritually and interest-wise -- it is nice to take notice of what is going on at any given moment and record it. 

Maybe one day I'll look back and it'll encourage me or cause me to tear up or make me laugh ...... 

So for the sake of taking time to embrace the moment I will recall some things I've observed or overheard from my children recently:

We recently ate at a local BBQ restaurant for dinner.  The children were given small boxes of crayons to color their menu.  On the way out of the restaurant my youngest 3 children carried their now empty crayon boxes to the car. 

The boxes were about the same size as a cell phone so it came as no surprise when they began to talk to one another in the car with their the boxes held up to their ears!

The funny part was when Lander, my 5 year old, said, "Yeh, Summer, look -- this is a 'Hellophone.' "

Think about it ....  "Hello" and "phone."  Pretty good name .....  except that it sounds like a curse word, huh?   Ha.  Ha.  Ha.

On another note ....  let me mention my basement.  The children are so creative and lose track of time very easily that the basement can get into a very chaotic and hazardous state very quickly. 

Let's just say that you probably wouldn't be able to find a 'pathway' to get to the bathroom down there or to Kevin's photography office without a few falls, bruises or atleast stumbles. 

In the dark .... you wouldn't have a chance!  That being said, this week was a time for a new discovery/creation that could also prove to be dangerous to our well being! 

As I walked quickly around the corner into the basement I was almost choked by a long string going from the window blinds to the floor.  As I gasped I realized that there were 5 or six or these strings running in several directions and criss-crossing the area.  The children had used the window blind cords to create a mass of strings criss-crossing one another across the front of the basement along the windows.

Upon further observation and questioning I was informed that I had entered the ski resort where the pet shop animals where traveling up and down the mountain on the ski lifts! 

Creative, huh?  Messy, yes......   but the Lord has been gentle with me and seems to constantly remind me that they will be gone one day and I will wish that I had little ones to create 'messes' and 'chaos' in my home. 

Thank you, Jesus, for the blessing of the children and the creative 'messes' that come along with them.  I wouldn't have it any other way!

I think I will try and describe each child and what he/she is interested in at the moment.  Warning:  This is subject to change at any given minute if they find some other pursuit worth their time, effort, and energy.  (Oh, to be in their brains for just a moment .......  they could teach me a thing or two about learning and the joy that is meant to come along with the process!!!!)

Sierra:  Beethoven CDs, creating her own piano pieces, singing like nobody is listening, fashion shows, Baby Story on TV, memorizing multiplication facts, doing Science via SOS (her choice and request - not mine!), reading blogs here at HSBlogger, painting, playing with my cell phone, helping Dad with lighting when he does a photo shoot, unloading dishwasher for Mom daily, reading at night in bed, listening to praise music, experimenting with her hair, experimenting with make-up at home (we only allow clear mascara and powder for going out), caring for her hamster and feeding her dog, helping cook, making desserts, .......  I could probably think of lots more but I'll stop here.  Sierra is my creative and artistic child. She is 12 and is a precious leader as she was chosen by God to be the Big Sis to 5 siblings!

Levi:  Interested in building stuff, whether it be Lego, wood, boxes, tape, glue, string or cardboard  paper, used miniature men, action figure or pet shop animals and creates elaborate houses, ships and playgrounds.  If a sibling has a need for a 'house' or something to be built -- they seek out Levi's help.  He has magazines on wood carving, wants an electric guitar, has a 'band' hair cut/style, likes to tease others to make them laugh, cries easily (very sensitive feelings), loves to spend hours in water, creek, or pool activities, builds bridges, unique experiements and observations, very quiet child, helps Dad with lighting at photo shoots, cleans the pool baskets for Dad, vacuums kitchen daily for Mom, natural understanding of numbers, loves Lord of the Rings and Pirates of the Carribean, classical music, Christian contemporary and rock music, adventure movies, etc.  Levi is scientifically minded and thinks differently than most people.  He is highly visual and recalls past events and details very clearly.  I look forward to watching how God uses him to bring Himself Glory.

 

Saige: This is my sensitive child with a keen depth into other's feelings.  She feels the pain of others and cries very easily when hurt or embarassed.  She loves polly dolls, creating homes, weddings, cities, and using dolls to act our specific role playing.  She loves to leave love notes to surprise us all and giggles and grins all the time.  She enjoys princess books and movies, being read to, sleeps with her bible often, sings with Sierra, does fashion shows and dance shows with Sierra, likes to practice cooking, plays well with anyone, serves easily, yields to others often, swimming, playing in the creek and outside, riding her bike, etc.  Saige is a quiet and happy child. She reminds me of myself when I was little.  To please her Dad is all she wants.  His smile or words of approval will make her week!!!!  She craves his love and attention -- just like I did when I was her age.  She is a middle child and is sure to be used by God in incredible ways as He holds her heart and spirit near to His.

 

Lander: Lander is loud and happy and boisterous.  He loves food, going out to eat, desserts, 'sweet' drinks, playing with Saige, serving Summer, taking a bath, swimming, hiking, traveling, camping, stuffed animals, playing starfall.com, copying the words "Jesus, God, and Lander", being read to, drawing and painting, pet shop animals, loving and kissing on Mom and Dad, smiling, silly movies, popcorn, creating homes for his small character toys, etc.  Lander cannot sit still to eat.  Even as an infant  he would twist his wrists and ankles when about to be nursed - he'd be so excited anticipating the food to come!  Adorable.  Funny.  Silly.  Six and loving it - it is his favorite # along with the favorite color of red.  The night of his 6th Birthday he asked Jesus into his heart - of his own choosing and I had the blessing of praying with him.  God is using Him to bring Laughter, Life and Light into others lives.

Summer:  For a few more days or so she will still be my 'baby.'  Sweet.  High-maintenance, my husband says.  (Tis true.)  Strong-willed yet wants to please.  Loves to be loved.  Gives kisses freely but out of the blue!  Enjoys little toys that she stuffs into bags, baskets, boxes or whatever she can find to tote them around.  Enjoys music, dancing and singing.  Sings to herself as is in conversation  -- really cute to listen to when she doesn't know you are!  Twirls, giggles, smiles often, likes being read to, sucks two fingers as she twists her hair under her nose to go to sleep or calm herself or when she is tired, doesn't like 'naps' but enjoys 'playtime' in bed by herself (where she falls asleep easily), painting, coloring, markers, glue, tape, etc.  Summer, basically, likes anything she sees her older siblings doing.  So she tries alot of stuff....  moves on very quickly to something else if bored .....  she sees Jesus in her siblings and loves Him dearly.  I will enjoy seeing Him use her in mighty ways for His Glory.

Lawson:  To be born any day now.  Not in a hurry, obviously.  Wiggly.  Squirmy.  Moving almost all the time.  Seems to enjoy frozen coffee drinks and Dr. Pepper which I sometimes break down and enjoy myself!  Sure to look like Levi or Lander or a combo of both.  Will be adored and loved and catered to by 7 loving family members.  Sure to be spoiled.  We can hardly wait to meet Lawson face to face!!!  We are ready when you are Lawson! 

God, thank you so much for these precious children.  They are growing up too fast.  Slow down time for us..... help us to savor each moment.  To use each day for relationship building and heart to heart connections.  May we all be Yours and bask in Your Love and share that with one another and others You place in our path.  I praise You for the gift of Kevin and my children.  May we, as a family and as idividuals always bring You pleasure and glory and honor and praise.  May Your Will be done in each of our lives .... today ..... now.... forever.  Thank you for allowing me the gifts of these loved ones.  ~Belinda~

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• Jun. 1, 2008 - An Encouraging Article....

Posted By Belinda

I've shared alot of my heart and my journey here ...... but when I stumbled upon this lady's article it made me feel so great! 

Her heart seemed to echo where my mine has been for the last few years as the Lord  has led us to trust Him in all areas of our lives .....  beginning with our children's education. 

My journey to unschooling is very similar to this lady's and I wanted to post the link here for myself and others who might need encouragement in the homeschooling adventure!

Journey to Unschooling

Enjoy and God Bless You!

~Belinda~

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• May. 30, 2008 - Counting the Days......

Posted By Belinda

We are anxiously awaiting the arrival of Lawson Elijah! 

He is expected on or before June 8th but knowing how my children always chose to leave the comfort of the womb late I suspect he might choose to do the same.  Although, my rapid weight gain and 'so-tight-it-is-close-to-popping' belly might convince Lawson that the big new world might be a little more comfy and roomy!

This is my 6th child and you'd think that by now I would've learned to be patient during the last few weeks of pregnancy.  (Especially since 4 of my children were 8+ days late!)  Nope!  I'm trying .......  but not doing as well as I'd like. 

I chose to use this blog entry today to remind myself how special today is..........and how I want to use it to thank God.

Today I will.............

Praise God in Heaven that He has chosen and allowed me to birth 5 healthy, beautiful and creative children.

Today I will..........

Praise God that He knows the perfect time to introduce Lawson to this world and to his Dad, Mom and five siblings.

Today I will........

relish the feeling of a tiny baby's body twisting and squirming in my body and the God-given ability and health to bear children.

Today I will........

rub my tight 'basketball' and praise God that He saw fit to bless me with another boy.

Today I will.........

sit and ponder Lawson's looks and personality.  How he will smile, coo, giggle, drool, and eat and sleep.

Today I will.........

rejoice that God has given me time to get the house prepared and the bassinet and the baby clothes washed.....

Today I will........

embrace the fact that life is fragile and that it is a gift.  Not one we choose or decide but a Precious Gift offered to us by our Loving Father in Heaven.

Today I will.......

celebrate the awesome gift of being able to conceive, carry and birth a child into this world.

Today I will........

look into my children's eyes with a heart filled with wonder and gratitude.

Today I will......

Praise God for changing my mind about children and family.  For teaching me to depend on Him and surrender to His Call and Will for my family.  (Coming from someone who used to say, "I will NEVER have children.") 

Thank you so much Jesus for not letting former selfish thoughts and desires block Your gift of children in my life.  You ALWAYS KNOW BEST and I thank you for not letting me get in the way of Your Plans!

Today I will......

Praise the Lord for  the wonderful gift of a truly loving, compassionate and handsome soul-mate. 

My marriage partner is the best father I  have ever seen ......  He devotes his time, energy and life to His Heavenly Father and to his earthly family.  He loves us and it shows day in and day out.  Kevin was 'designed by God' to be a godly father and example to other men......  I know it - I see it - I speak it - and I look forward to how You, Lord, are going to  use Kevin in the lives of other men and to encourage family growth and the importance of these priceless treasures and relationships.

Today I will .......

enjoy the moment of today.  This second.  Without worries over tomorrow or the future or the past.  I will choose to live Life to the fullest in this very minute.  I will refuse to let 'today' be stolen from me by unhealthy thoughts.  I will choose to rejoice in the moments I am given.  To live Life to the fullest as I abide in Jesus and allow Him to overflow from my being to those around me that I love and interecede for.

Today I will........

trust the timing of Lawson's birth into God's Hands.  I will thank Him for urging me to pray for this little boy.  I will thank Him for giving me the desire for children ......  and the desire to be wholly His - surrendered and devoted - to what His Will is.

Today I will.......

Thank God that He is patient with me and understands my lack of surrender in areas where I struggle.  That He sees my fears but refuses to let me die in those fears.  That He takes my hand and gently teaches me to Trust and Obey even when logic goes against His commands.

Today I will......

Praise God that He is my Provider.  He is my Refuge.  He is my Redeemer.  He is my Husband.  He is my Rock.  He is my Shield.  He  is my Encourager.  He is my Teacher.  He is my Guide in this journey called life.

Today I will........

rest in Jesus' arms and breathe.  And look forward to the day when He strenghtens me, upholds me. and consoles and comforts me as I go through labor and delivery to bring Lawson into this world.

Today I will.....

Praise God that Kevin and I have been entrusted with a 6th child to nurture and bring up in the Love of Jesus and on the foundation of His Word.  To love and nurture another child - and thus to work with Jesus - to change the world for His Kingdom, His Sake and His Name.  All Glory and All Honor and All Praise to Our Lord and Savior and Christ!!!!

Today I will......

end this blog entry with a prayer for you:

Dear Lord, 

You have made each one of us so unique and special and annointed. 

You've hand chosen us to be Yours. 

To simply yield to You in trust and faith and live a life pleasing to You. 

Help us to not get distracted by wordly pursuits or desires but to keep our eyes on You and the hope of heaven. 

Bless all your children (from newborn to nearing death) to live and walk and breathe and talk and rest in You and Your Presence. 

May time with You be our ONE PRIORITY as we seek to live this life to the fullest. 

You promised Life more abundantly .....  but we will never get this aside from You. 

Lead us Lord. 

Keep us Lord. 

Remind us of Your Presence and Your Hand in our lives. 

Please don't ever allow ANYTHING - ANY THING - to get in the way of You and Your Love and Your Plan for our lives. 

Thank  You that You are jealous over us ......  and will not put up with anything or anyone or any belief or any fear or any idol that sets itself up against You. 

Your Will WILL Prevail and I thank You for that comforting thought today. 

For in Your Hand and in the very Center of Your Will is the safest, best and most precious place to be.

We love you Lord.

~Belinda~

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• May. 9, 2008 - Container Gardening

Posted By Belinda

My oldest daughter and I  have been wanting to have a 'big' garden for a few years .......  but it seems like something always comes up and gets in the way of our plans. OR we just put it off until too late and we lose the 'head start' and forget it.  OR like last year we planted a few things.  Tomatoes and peppers did well but all else failed ......  do you think it was because we NEVER weeded the thing?!?!  Ha. Ha.

Well, this year we still haven't started the garden. 

I am 4 weeks from my due date and can't even fathom dealing with a garden and yet, my children still desire one.  So my husband and I made this offer:  Sierra and Levi will be in charge of the weeding, watering and the harvest .....  but we will all help with building the raised bed and the planting.  We are doing a basic, simple and small raised garden this year and I read that wet newspapers between the plants and around them will stop the weeds .......  we will see.

And I discovered a way to 'be a part' of our food production / gardening process as well. 

"Self-contained gardening systems." 

Yeh!!  Hip-Hip-Hooray!  This is the coolest concept to me and I found out how to make one 'home-made' and so its at very little cost for me to try it out.  I figure if I put two on my deck then I can carry baby in sling and water and care for these without the weeds!!!!   Without the scorching heat.  All within a few steps of my kitchen!!!!

So in case anyone is interested, and sort-of 'garden illiterate'  (like me), I thought you might want to read these two articles.  It might encourage you as it did me ......  that you might just have the time, energy and 'green thumb' to grow a few things to eat this year -- right off your back deck or just outside your door!

***See below for the two links I printed out and put in a notebook as I teach myself about this type of simple gardening........***

http://www.josho.com/gardening.htm

www.mastergardener.umd.edu/files/hg600.pdf

Lord, Bless our hands to be useful in Your service and to learn the things You desire for us to know.  And then to share that knowledge with others. 

Thank you for blessing me with children who have a love of learning and who are beginning to ignite a spark within me to love learning new things as well.  Mine, sadly, was puffed out sometime during my 'education.' 

Jesus, ignite a passion within myself, Kevin and each of our children to learn and go after all You have willed and purposed for  our lives .....  as a family and as individuals.  Freedom to Be Who You Created Us To Be .......  Free to do What You Designed Us To Do!    

~I love you, Lord Jesus.  We welcome You to always be Lord over our family, lives, home and learning experiences.~  Belinda

 

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• May. 2, 2008 - Forums and Groups to Join

Posted By Belinda

Helpful Forums and Groups to Join

During the past years of homeschooling my children I've found a few forums that have provided encouragement just when I needed it.  To be successful at homeschooling I believe you must truly trust your children to learn and that you must trust that God specifically chose you to be their parent.  Whenever someone wise encourages me with this Truth I leave feeling encouraged and ready for the whatever the next day might bring.  May these forums help you in the same way..........

 Christian Unschooling Group

 Unschooling Resources

 

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• Apr. 30, 2008 - Help for Parents

Posted By Belinda in Help for Parents

Help for Parents

Below you will find sites I've discovered that assist me with educating my children.  Anything from worksheet generators, homeschool forms, creative ideas to printable materials......

Creating Worksheets for Children

Printable Forms and Resources

Worsheets Galore

Links Learning Site (lots of info)

Early Years Homeschool

 Home Based Education

 Easy Fun School Resources

 

 

 

**Check here regularly as I will be adding information as I continue to search the internet for 'buried treasures.'**

 

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• Apr. 27, 2008 - The Boat Load of Fish

Posted By Belinda

As I was falling alseep the other night I was praying and asking God to help me listen to Him and hear His Voice.  Asking the Father to make me more sensitive to the Holy Spirit and to listen to Him in the many forms He chooses to speak with me.  To have ears wide open and to hear with my spirit what all He desires to say to me.  This is the dream I recall when I awoke the next morning:

I had the sense that I was looking at a canoe and that Jesus and Peter were on board.  Jesus was sitting on one of the canoe seats and looked up at Peter and patted the seat next to him.  The words I sensed Jesus saying were these:  "Come and sit by me Peter.  I know that you've fished all night and not caught one thing.  I want you to come and sit beside me here.  I want to make you feel better."

In the dream I sensed that Peter sat down and Jesus explained to him what he wanted Peter to do.  When Peter obeyed the boat became so full of fish that it began to sink and another boat had to be called in to help haul all the fish caught back to the shore.

I awoke thinking about the dream and what it meant.  I recalled reading a similar story in the Bible and began to think of the way Jesus might be communicating to me through the dream.  I realized 2 things as I meditated on this:

1.  Jesus did not cause all the fish to be caught to get any glory out it.  He just honestly wanted to make Peter feel better.  It had been a long night and Peter was surely tired and disappointed.  Fishing was his lively hood -  his source of income and his career/choice.  To work all night and not be productive at all would surely be discouraging. 

Jesus, being the Friend that He is, sought to encourage Peter and lift his spirits.  He did what He could at the moment to help Peter in his time of stress, need, and depression.  Jesus simply caused lots of fish to be caught in a very short time period.  Simple for Jesus.  Easy task for the Creator of the Universe.  No problem.  But for Peter !!!!  ----  A great sense of encouragement and a spark to ignite a fire in his heart.  Such a large spark that the next thing Jesus asked Peter to do was possible to answer with a resounding, "Yes!"

2.  Jesus had first asked Peter to throw the net back into the water -although Peter knew from the experience of 'all night fishing' with no catch - this seemed a silly thing to do.  Yet, Peter obeyed.  Jesus blessed the obedience with 2 boat loads of fresh fish in a moment's time!  I believe Jesus did this to increase Peter's faith so the next command He would ask of Peter would be easier to answer.  The next command was, "Come and follow me and I will make you a fisher of men!" 

Think of it.  After probably the biggest catch of his life career as a fisherman Peter is asked to 'walk away from it all' and follow Jesus!  Seems like a huge and impossible command to obey, huh?  Well .......  not if you are Peter. 

From Peter's perspective Jesus had just done the impossible.  He had just done something that Peter - as a professional fisherman - knew was impossible.  A true miracle. 

Just like the rest of us ......  Jesus deals with us as individuals with unique thoughts, careers/jobs, ideas and concerns.  He comes at just the right time to encourage us when we are in deep despair.  Then He blesses us beyond measure.  And the unique and specific blessing is for us only.  It might not mean as much to someone else.  Truth be known - it may only be understood by us and appreciated by us - but that is OK if no one else understands.  Jesus did it for us - not someone else.  We are each unique and special to Him and He takes the time to meet us where we are.  He senses our deepest need at the moment.

Remember when I said I saw Jesus in the dream patting the seat beside Him in the canoe and asking Peter to sit down beside Him?  I believe that is what He calls us to do.  To spend a moment or two just sitting beside Him and hearing Him out. Sensing His Presence and listening for His still quiet Voice - expecting that He truly desires to Help us, Comfort us, and Be with us. 

The other voices in the world yell, scream and shout for attention.  To hear His Voice we must sit down beside Him in the stillness and listen for His command and then obey.  No matter how illogical or silly it seems.  No matter how much we think we know.  No matter what our intellect tells us.  To simply listen and then follow out His instructions to the letter!

When we do this, as Peter did, we are surely in for a Blessing.  One beyond measure.  One that might not mean so much to everyone else in our realm of influence .....  but a blessing that for us is a Kiss from Heaven.  A sure sign that we are loved and seen by our Awesome Creator and that He cares enough to come along beside us and meet us in our deepest needs.

And then ... guess what .....  the next thing He asks of us will be a little easier to obey.  Our faith will have grown just enough to be able to say 'Yes' to the next request.  And so on and so forth ......  we will grow more and more into the Image of Christ who obeyed the Father in every detail of His life. 

Will it be a life of adventure?  Yes! 

Will it be unpredictable?  Probably. 

Will it be fulfilling?  Most definitely. 

Will it be a life filled with love, purpose and passion?  Yes.  Yes.  Yes.  How could it be any less?  God knows what He created you to be.  His.  And once we are committed to being just that - HIS - we are in for the ride of our lives because we will be living each moment in His Will and in His Ways and He never makes mistakes.

Trust Him.  He created you.  No one else in this world is like you.  There will never be another you on this planet.  What ever you are supposed to do here .....  only you can do it

Bask in His Love.  Climb up next to him on the seat of your empty canoe and let Him encourage you and guide you and teach you.  Listen to His Ways and follow them.  Don't let logic or your intellect get in the way.  Let Him guide you by His Spirit.  Ask Him to make you sensitive to His Voice and His Leadings.  He is so creative and He made you to be creative also.  Don't try to 'fit into a mold' or 'stay in the box' -- just be His.  That is your job - TO BE HIS ALONE.

Dear Jesus,  I don't know all that you wanted to show me through this dream.  But the love and compassion I sensed overwhelmed me.  To think that You didn't fill those boats up so that You could receive glory and honor and praise .....  but to encourage a discouraged fishermen ...  and then to encourage Him to a lifetime of service to You.  You are an amazing God .....  teach us more of YourSelf and Your Ways.  Forgive us for being so close-minded, puffed-up and prideful.  Teach our hearts to humbly walk before You and obey whatever You ask of us.  In Jesus Name we ask, believe and receive.  I love you Lord........ Your Child-Belinda

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