This year, I have been striving for simplification in our observance of Christmas. Though we have never gone overboard in our celebration of Christmas in the past, we have done a lot more running around, decorating, shopping, baking, visiting, and other Christmas-related activities than we have chosen to do this year. The simplicity with which we have faced the season this year has taught me couple of things about celebrating Christmas in general and about my part in my family’s celbration of Christmas in particular.
I didn’t realize until this year how much pressure I have put on myself in the past–unnecessary pressure. I am beginning to understand and appreciate what my children truly enjoy about holiday festivities and what they can forgo as not as meaningful or important. When we pulled out the decorations at the beginning of the month, I informed them that I wanted to keep the decorating simple. They chose their favorites, and then did most of the work in putting everything up. This told me a lot about what they treasured as Christmas traditions and what wasn’t so important to them. Our collection of nutcrackers, for instance, found a prominent place at the insistence of every child, yet the lighted village wasn’t begged for. The large nativity, the tree with its special ornaments, the lighted wreath for the door were all taken out, but other things were passed by without a second thought. I learned a valuable lesson on what traditions are making an impression.
Christmas-related activities also gave me a glimpse into what my children especially enjoy about the season. SInging carols, baking cookies, and watching holiday movies have figured prominently in our celebrating this year. They really haven’t missed the scurrying around to parties, programs, classes, and shopping trips. I haven’t either.
I’m not sure if this simplified version of Christmas celebration will happen next year, but I do know I have enjoyed it. It has given our family the opportunity to focus on what (or more specifically Who) Christmas is truly about. We have spent more time with one another on things that have strengthened our ties as a family, and we have looked to Christ with more ferver.
Christ is, very simply, the reason for CHRISTmas.