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Homeschoolopoly
Aug. 13, 2008
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Some of you, who've been coming here for awhile, may recall that in the spring, we were blessed to receive a grant from the Homeschool Foundation.

In addition to that, one of the "extras" we received was a copy of the new Homeschoolopoly Game.  We waited, and waited, and waited.  I'd about given up on it ever arriving.  Well, it did, this week, with a lovely note, from the wife (Pamela Berthume) of the couple that sells the game, explaining their family situation over the last year.

I was moved to tears as I read the letter.

Last night the kiddos and I sat and played Homeschoolopoly.  Please understand that this was a HUGE sacrifice for me, because I seriously dislike all forms of Monopoly,  It's a hard situation in my house, as I have one child who is a serious Monopoly freak and another who would like to be.  It just takes too long, it doesn't move fast enough to hold my attention and I can always think of at least 110 other things that would be a better use of my time.

Well, we played the short version, with one or two slight family modifications, and had a wonderful time.  Ironically, I the woman with no license and only two children was the proud possessor or three out of the four possible vehicles on the board. 

If you are a family that plays board games or likes monopoly, I'd seriously recommend that you visitwww.homeschoolopoly.com and purchase a copy of this.  It will be one of those heirloom items to pass on to your grandchildren, no doubt.

Blessings, MaggieRaye

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Time to Get to Work
Aug. 8, 2008
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Well,
Now I've figured out the whole Photobucket thing -- and incase I forget, which I'm prone to -- I've printed out Janet's precious picture tutorial (did I say THANK YOU), so I should be fine -- I need to start adding photos for you. 

Even though I will have photos in the Currently Available For Sale Category, by the first of the week, it will probably take a little longer before we are able to get them up on Blessed Baby's website, so that you can actually purchase them.

Be sure to check out the Gallery of Past quilts also, you'll be able to see some of my past efforts there.

May the Lord bless you with sunshine this weekend (or rain, I'd be happy to send you some of that - free shipping - no sales tax).

May the Lord bless & keep you,
MaggieRaye

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Email Notice of New Posts
Aug. 2, 2008
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If you would like to be kept up to date on new posts and would like to receive an email whenever I put up a new post, please drop me a quick note at

patchworkcottage AT yahoo DOT com

I'll be starting this as soon as I have those who've expressed interest.

Always,
MaggieRaye

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Welcoming Fellowship
Jul. 31, 2008
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Last night we had the opportunity to visit the church we've attended for the bulk of the last three or four years. 

It was so awesome! 

We went to hear a visiting pastor from Haiti share, because we are going to be sponsoring children in his school. 

It was so good to see familiar and friendly faces.  It was so good to feel missed and to have folks genuinely glad to see us.

I say this, because I know as of late, I've been harsh about some of my experiences and feelings about churches today.  I want you to understand that I am not anti-church.  I do see churches falling short, but churches are made up of people and even good people are still sinners.  It is meant to encourage single mothers, to know that they are not alone, because many have experienced what I've shared.   Once we can stop taking it personally, it's easier to deal with and pray for those who have hurt us.

It was also a blessing to listen to my almost 8 y.o. son, as some very well thought out questions -- when did that kid get so smart?  He has a heart fot the orphans in general and for those in Haiti especially.  It was so cool to watch him talking to the visiting Pastor, after the service -- or trying to, there was a slight language barrier.  Interestingly, the Love of Christ seems to bridge that gap.

Blessings, MaggieRaye

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Helping Haiti
Jul. 15, 2008
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After I put up my last post, I realized it might be good to share with you the specific ministries we've connected with, so that, if the Lord leads, you might be able to help them, too.

Homebound Missions
www.homeboundmissions.org
This is, of course, our largest commitment as a family.  There is lots of sewing to be done, diapers is our thing.  Collecting gently used summer clothing is another project we have done.  My favorite is hosting baby showers, where all the gifts go to Haitian orphanages.

The Livesay Family
- livesayhaiti.blogspot.com
We discovered this family through Homebound Missions.  We love to read Tara's descriptions of life in Haiti.  If you want high gloss, "missionary" stuff, this might not be the spot for you.  Tara is very real in her writing about daily life with a house full of children in Haiti.  We are praying for this family and hope to one day to be able to meet them in real life.  We like meeting real live missionaries.

His Hands For Haiti
  www.hishandsforhaiti.org
This is our newest connection.  We've known about them for awhile now.  Sometimes the Lord just has to put something before you over and over (because we're "dumb as a hake" right Jamie?) before we actually follow through.  We are blessed with the privilege of being able to sponsor one of the children from His House orphanage.

Haitian Ministries
  www.hatianministries.com
Through His Hands for Haiti, I learned about this ministry.   We are currently working to prepare New Mom Bundles that can be distributed by their clinics to newly delivered moms for their babies.

Heartline Ministries wwwheartlineministries.org
Through Tara Livesay, we learned about this ministry.  Their Women's Program will also be the recipients of New Mom Bundles.

Haitian Children's Home  www.haitianchildrenshome.org
While we haven't officially begun helping this ministry yet, but I am exploring ways that we may be able to include them in what we are already doing.  I just received my list of their most needed items.  Still waiting for the Lord to direct on this one.

When the Lord helped me to close one door, one I'd known I needed to, but had been dragging my feet on, He flung open, not one, but many windows all in one place Haiti. 

Do you suppose He's called my family to serve Him in Europe?  Or maybe Canada?  Sometimes I miss the obvious, but I think I'm getting the picture on this one.

Has the Lord given you an obvious calling, that you just keep missing?

Blessings, MaggieRaye

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Counting the Cost . . .You Do the Math
Jul. 11, 2008
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I recently have had contact with a nurse who does short term missions trips to Haiti,  and helps in three clinics.  I also "talked" with another lady about her womens program.  One of their programs gives New Mom Bundles to mothers who have recently delivered or are near term.  The bundle consists of a t-shirt, diaper, and receiving blanket, if I remember correctly.

Because of my work with Homebound Missions, I decided this was a project I could and would like to take on, but I wanted to do it a little different.  You know me, I'm just wanting to do my own thing.

So the New Mom Bundles I'm putting together are pretty much the same, except that instead of one disposable diaper it has three cloth diapers and a set of diaper pins. 

Now here's the part where math comes in.

A cloth diaper from WalMart costs $1
A days wages in Haiti  $1
If you figure a days wages in the US based on an 8 hour work day at $7/hr. (American Poverty)  that translates to $56.
Would you be able to afford diapers if you had to pay $56 a piece for them?
4 diaper pins or 1 pair of vinyl pants cost about the same as one cloth diaper.

How about a simple three snap front t-shirt from Gerber?
Cost approximately $2.85
3 days wages in Haiti $3
Would you be able to spend three days wages ($168) for a single t-shirt?

A home made flannel receiving blanket $5
A weeks wages in Haiti $5
Would you be able to spend a weeks wages ($280) on a single flannel receiving blanket?

The total New Mom Bundle including the time to put them together and the cost of shipping them to Haiti will cost $15 and it may well be the only gift the mom receives to celebrate the arrival of her new baby.
3 weeks wages in Haiti $15
Would you spend 3 weeks wages ($840) on a single baby shower gift?  How about $15? 

This math lesson certainly has made me reconsider my own American poverty.  As a single mom with two children, I see, in comparison, how truly blessed we are in our poverty. 

Blessings, MaggieRaye

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Amazing Message
Jul. 6, 2008
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Today was a church at home day. 
The Lord knew, and earlier in the week, the John MacArthur CD I'd requested over a month ago, arrived.  Perfect timing, as usual.

The Message:  A Biblical Response to the Church Growth Movement.

It was powerful, it was amazing, it was convicting.  I thought about all the churches I've attended, and measured them by this message (read "scripture").  There were very few who measure up - maybe two - out of many, many churches.  Even allowing for our humanity, this is not a good thing.

Interestingly, MacArthur  goes back to the first church, which is a subject that has come up in several different places lately as I'm reading.  How far away from the model Christ gave us we are.

The last point in his sermon spoke the most to me, it spoke of the qualifications of the leaders -- not just the verses we typically think of from Timothy and Titus but also the character of those men who were chosen to minister to the needs of the widows in Acts.  If we'd only return to these standards.

If you're up for a great message, that will make you think twice about what the purpose of church really is and what the church really should look like, I recommend this for you.    If you're comfortable being B.U.S.Y., doing all those church activities then you probably don't have time to listen to it anyway.

Blessings, MaggieRaye

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BirthVerse
Jul. 3, 2008
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Someone sent me a link to this really cool site, where you enter your birthday (day and month only).  And it tells you what your BirthVerse is. 

Check it out!  My BirthVerse


Blessings, MaggieRaye

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How B.U.S.Y. Are You?
Jul. 2, 2008
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A friend read this to me this morning, as we talked on the phone.  She was going to give me a copy of it, but I had to have it now, to share, so I searched for it, online, and found it.  It was just too precious not to share.  It made me really stop and think.  I hope it does you as well.

Blessings, MaggieRaye

 

WORLDWIDE SATANIC MEETING AGAINGST CHRISTIANS

Satan called a worldwide convention of demons. In his opening address he said; "We cannot keep Christians from going to Church". We can't keep them from reading their Bibles and knowing the truth". "We can't even keep them from forming an intimate relationship with their Saviour". "Once they gain that connection with Jesus, our power over them is broken". "So let them go to their Churches; let them have their communion services, but steal their time, so they don't have time to develop a personal relationship with Jesus". "This is what I want you to do," said the devil: "Distract them from gaining hold of their Saviour and maintaining that vital connection throughout their day!"

"How shall we do this ?", his demons shouted. "Keep them busy in the non-essentials of life and invent innumerable schemes to occupy their minds," he answered. "Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow, borrow, and borrow". "Persuade their wives to go to work for long hours and the husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours a day, so they can afford their empty lifestyles". "Keep them from spending time with their children". "As their families fragment, soon, their homes will offer no escape from the pressures of work!" "Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear that still, small voice". "Entice them to play the radio or cassette player whenever they drive. To keep the TV, VCR, CD's and their PC's going constantly in their homes and see to it that every store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical music constantly". "This will jam their minds and break that union with Christ".

"Fill the coffee tables with sexy magazines and worldly newspapers". "Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day. Invade their driving moments with billboards; Flood their mailboxes with junk mails, mail order catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter and promotional offering free products, services and false hopes..." "Skip skinny, beautiful models on the magazines and TV so their husbands will believe that outward beauty is what's important, and they will become dissatisfied with their wives". "Keep the wives too tired to love their husbands at night. give them headaches too"! "If they don't give their husbands the love they need, they will begin to look elsewhere. That will fragment their families quickly". "Give them Santa Claus to distract them from teaching their children the real meaning of Christmas. Give them Easter bunny so they won't talk about His  resurrection and power over sin and death." "Even in their recreation, let them de excessive. Have them return from their recreation exhausted".

Keep them too busy - (Being Under Satan's Yoke) to go out in nature and reflect on God's creation. Send them to amusement parks, sporting events, plays concerts, and movies instead". "Keep them busy, busy, and busy"! "And when they meet for spiritual fellowship, involve them in gossip and small talk so that they leave with troubled consciences. Crowd their lives with so many good causes they have no time to seek power from Jesus". "Soon they will be working in their own strength, sacrificing their health and family for the good of the cause. It will work! " It's quite an effective plan".

The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed, going here and there. Having little time for their families. Having no time to tell others about the power of Jesus to change lives. I guess the question is, has Satan been successful in his schemes? Over to you, dear Christian, be the judge!

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Discontentment
May. 30, 2008
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Even in the midst of so much to be thankful for, I find that discontentment can subtly sneak in.

For anyone who says what we watch doesn't impact us I would beg to differ.

Recently I sat and watched every single episode of the Christy series -- including 2 or the 3 that PAX put out so we'd all now how the story ended.

I find myself wondering why I can't be a back woods school teacher or have some other equally "romantic" ministry for the Lord.  Never mind He's blessed my life with the highest calling there is . . .

But, I want . . .

And then there is the whole preacher, doctor thing. . . yeh, I know I know, I have the perfect provider in my Heavenly Father.

But, I want . . .

It's not only where we go and who we hang out with that can cause discontentment, if we do not guard our hearts, some of us foolishly even pipe it into our homes and inflict it upon ourselves.

So,  the Lord being gracious and perfect put Hebrews 13:5 in my devotional reading the other morning, and I find myself claiming it over and over again recently,

Roughly paraphrased it says to be content with what we have for the Lord will never leave us nor forsake us.

OUCH!

Single mom's be cautious -- idle amusements, something as simple as watching a "good" movie with your children, has the potential to stir up our sin natures.

I long for the day when I have learned to bask in the Lord's trustworthiness and not want anything more.

How about you?  Have you searched out the reasons for your discontentment so that you can pull those weeds from your garden?  If you don't, they'll only grow . . .

Blessings, MaggieRaye

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Searching for Additional Orphanages to Help
May. 29, 2008
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For about a year now I've been blessed to work helping Homebound Missions minister to two orphanages in Haiti. 

I'd like to expand our efforts as a family and start adding orphanages from other countries to our efforts.  So, if you know of a Bible believing ministry that serves orphanages (we don't care what countries) please email me the contact information for the program. 

Thanking all of you in advance,
MaggieRaye

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I Am What I Am
May. 27, 2008
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Today's thought for the day:

I am not what I ought to be,
I am not what I want to be.
I am not what I hope to be.
But still, I am not what I used to be.
And by the grace of God,
I am what I am.

- John Newton

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When Your Hut Is On Fire
Apr. 23, 2008
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** I think this post is similar to what many future posts will be like.  Thank you to Susan Lemons for sharing it on a Yahoo! group that we both belong to. 

May the Lord bless your homeschooling endeavors today!
MaggieRaye


When Your Hut's On Fire
The only survivor of a shipwreck was washed up on a small, uninhabited island.
He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him. Every day he scanned the horizon for
help, but none seemed forthcoming.. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a
little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements, and to store his
few possessions. One day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his
little hut in flames, with smoke rolling up to the sky. He felt the worst had
happened, and everything was lost. He was stunned with disbelief, grief, and
anger. He cried out, 'God! How could you do this to me?' Early the next day, he
was awakened by the sound of a ship approaching the island! It had come to
rescue him! 'How did you know I was here?' asked the weary man of his rescuers.
'We saw your smoke signal,' they replied.




The Moral of This Story:




It's easy to get discouraged when things are going bad, but we shouldn't lose
heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of our pain and
suffering. Remember that the next time your little hut seems to be burning to
the ground. It just may be a smoke signal that summons the Grace of God.

P.S. You may want to consider passing this on, because you never know who feels
as if their hut is on fire today.

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Mr. Pointy Nose
Jan. 6, 2006
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A dear friend emailed this to me about a year ago.  I have no idea of it's origin and am not taking any credit for it.  I did feel it was worth sharing and  I only wish I had come up with something this clever.

What do you think?
Mr. Pointy Nose

Once upon a time, thre lived a happy family in a great wood:  Mother and Father, Brother, Sister and Baby.  Father went off to work each day, and Mother planted seeds and tended her garden and loved her children and taught them to read and write.  At night, when Father came home, the family sang songs and laughed and played together.

One day while Father was away at work, a knock came at the door of the family's home.  Mother opened the door and found a stern man with sharp teeth and a very pointy nose standing on the doorstep.

"May I help you?" Mother asked.

"I am here," snarled the man, "to inspect your home and your children."

Mother was surpised.  "Whatever for?" she asked.

"It has been reported," snapped Mr. Pointy Nose, "that you do not institutionalize your children, as is the norm.  It has been reported that you spend an abnormal amount of time with your children, and you have been seen laughing with them, and they with you.  It has been reported that your teen child is not embarrassed to be seen with you and that she smiles while working in your garden and hanging laundry.  I will have to inspect your house and ask you some questions."

Mother invited Mr. Pointy Nose in and offered him a cup of tea.  Mr. Pointy Nose pulled a great pile of papers from his briefcase and began asking important questions:  "How many television sets do you own, how often do you dine out, why do you have so many books, what do you have agains institutions, why do you grow your own food, do your children know who Madonna is, how about Beavis and Butthead?"

Mother was very kind and reassuring: "we have one teleision set, in the closet," she told Mr. Pointy Nose, "and we dine outside several times a week in nice weather.  We have so many books because we love to read.  We have no personal gruge against institutions -- we simply choose not to institutionalize.  We grow food to eat, and of course my children know who the Madonna is.  I'm not sure what a beavis is, and while butthead is a rather crude term, I've known a few."

Mr. Pointy Nose seemed insulted by this last statement and jumped up in a huff.  "I must speak with your children," he announced.

Mother called Brother and Sister, Baby was too young to speak.  Brother was six years old and Sister was 13.  Mr. Pointy Nose asked Brother, "Have you ever heard of Beavis and Butthead?" 

"Yes," said Brother.  "We have beavers in the creek, and Butthead is my uncle's boss."

Sister giggled, but Mr. Pointy Nose was not amused.  He addressed Brother again.  "Do your parents ever yell at you?"

"You better believe it!" said Brother.  "One time I climbed clear to the top of a 30 foot tree, and Dad yelled and yelled at me to stay up there till he could climb up, too.  He doesn't get much time to climb trees and I think he yelled so much 'cause he was excited at the chance."

Mr. Pointy Nose turned again in disgust and asked Sister, "Wouldn't you like to be institutionalized with other children your age?"

"Well most of my friends are institutionalized," Sister told him.  "And I haven't been too impressed with it.  They can hardly read anything -- they don't even like Charles Dickens.  And they all hate history and math.  I like playing jump rope with them in the evening, but they all talk about the most boring things, like clothes and make-up and what's on TV and...oh...I know who Beavis and Butthead are.  Do you know who Mr. Pickwick is?"

"No," said Mr. Pointy Nose curtly.  "What sort of music do you listen to?"

"Oh, Beethoven is my favorite.  Did you know he went deaf and just kept on writing music?"

"No," said Mr. Pointy Nose impatiently.  "Why don't you listen to popular teenage music?"

Sister was surprised that a grown-up would ask such a question, but she answered as politely as possible, "Because it sounds simply wretched."

"Wretched!  Wretched!?" screeched Mr. Pointy Nose.  "That is not a seventh grade word!  Where did you learn it?"

Mother had been in the kitchen preparing a snack of homemade bread and strawberry preserves.  When she heard Mr. Pointy Nose screech, she rushed into the living room.  "What's wretched?" she asked, a little alarmed.

"This child," Mr. Pointy Nose said indignantly, "correctly used the word wretched."
"Oh, I'm sure she wasn't referring to you," Mother said gently.  "Here, have some fresh bread and jam."

Mr. Pointy Nose looked at the tray in Mother's hands suspiciously, then cautiously took her offering.  As he ate he began to relax a little.  "You made this yourself?" he asked.

"Oh yes," said Mother.

"And I helped," chimed in Sister.  Then she added, "I'm sorry for upsetting you.  I didn't know you had an aversion to that word or I would never have said it."

"Aversion?" Mr. Pointy Nose sighed.  He slumped in his chair and looked at Mother.  "How do you ever expect your children to fit into the world if you don't institutionalize them, and you encourage them to develop advanced vocabularies and you teach them self-sufficiency.  This does not coincide with the new way -- they must follow the new standards."

Mother looked at Mr. Pointy Nose thoughtfully.  "I appreciate your apparent concern, kind sir," she said, "but you see, I am not raising children to follow standards -- I am raising them to set standards."

Mr. Pointy Nose looked around in a musing way and murmured, "Yes, yes, I can see that." 

He left with a bread recipe and an invitaiton to visit again some time.

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