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• Sep. 13, 2008 - A New Devotional

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 Sword Fighting by Karyn Henely was recommended to me by another homeschool mom when I relayed where my 7 and 8 yo. boys are at spiritually.

I wanted something for my boys in particular. As they are getting older and can certainly grasp deeper concepts.
The girls still get the basic ideas and hear the repeating of the bible verses.

Finding a good secondhand copy made the book even more affordable.

It's companion is the God's Story Bible book that takes scripture and expresses it as one would in a sunday school class after reading the Bible passage itself. So that is what I am doing reading the actual scripture from our KJV and then reading the Bible story from -God's Story and then the discussion questions in the Sword Fighting book.

Last night we discussed the concepts of being a helper and a servant. Galatians 5:13 Serve one another in love. The first reference was from Gen. about Adam and the animals as his helpers and then the creation of Eve as helper to Adam.

The temptation is to not help others. How do we fight it?
Soon our cork boards will be up and we'll display the verses each week on a sword shaped paper.

The questions are simple: What can animals do to help us? Why did God make a woman to be Adam's helper? If serving is helping wherever  help is needed... I added -How does a wife serve her husband?
How can you tell if someone is a serving helping person? How can you tell if they are not?

I was blessed by the answers I got. Women help their husband's by helping him bring new people into the world... They nurse the babies. They take care of others together. They make meals and make sure the daddies can get off to work with clean clothes. They teach the children together. All good answers!

I also wanted to share this site I'll put into the side bar too. I printed off tons of great pages of activities and Bible verses from it.

I got some other lovely books written by Karyn Henely a children's hymnal,  some picture books , and a craft / storytime planner for preschoolers.

So I am pretty prepared with our spiritual lessons in place.
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• Aug. 14, 2008 - Pilgrim's Progress

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We recently watched a 1970's film production of The Pilgrim's Progress staring Liam Neeson! We all got a lot out of it and I will be thrilled when the boys are able to read for themselves the great novel by John Bunyan.

So happen's that during this same period we found ourselves in a time of deep reflection brought on by a life circumstance and a time major growth. So like the Lord to provide the encouragement.

I wrote this in my journal.

I Have Nothing; Yet I Have Everything

Striped of common comforts we find ourselves better able to be properly grafted into the vine. Pruned back; yet thriving like we never could had we not met the husbandman's scalpel.

We come to the place where life has such deep meaning that joy abound's through all circumstances. The sorrows are just short lived treks through a valley and we always come out on a green pasture to feed and gain our strength to move onward. We sing, "Journey forth; that He may increase even as I decrease!"
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• Jan. 27, 2008 - Devotional - Streams in the Desert

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January, 27

We Need Minor Keys Too

"Giving thanks always for all things unto God" (Eph. 5:20).

No matter what the source of the evil, if you are in God and surrounded by Him as by an atmosphere, all evil has to pass through Him before it comes to you. Therefore you can thank God for everything that comes, not for the sin of it, but for what God will bring out of it and through it. May God make our lives thanksgiving and perpetual praise, then He will make everything a blessing.

We once saw a man draw some black dots. We looked and could make nothing of them but an irregular assemblage of black dots. Then he drew a few lines, put in a few rests, then a clef at the beginning, and we saw these black dots were musical notes. On sounding them we were singing, "Praise God from whom all blessings flow, Praise Him all creatures here below."

There are many black dots and black spots in our lives, and we cannot understand why they are there or why God permitted them to come. But if we let God come into our lives, and adjust the dots in the proper way, and draw the lines He wants, and separate this from that, and put in the rests at the proper places; out of the black dots and spots in our lives He will make a glorious harmony. Let us not hinder Him in this glorious work! --C. H. P.

"Would we know that the major chords were sweet, If there were no minor key? Would the painter's work be fair to our eyes, Without shade on land or sea?

"Would we know the meaning of happiness, Would we feel that the day was bright, If we'd never known what it was to grieve, Nor gazed on the dark of night?"

Many men owe the grandeur of their lives to their tremendous difficulties. --C. H. Spurgeon

When the musician presses the black keys on the great organ, the music is as sweet as when he touches the white ones, but to get the capacity of the instrument he must touch them all. --Selected
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• Jan. 1, 2008 - Jonathan Edwards

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THE RESOLUTIONS
of
Jonathan Edwards



BEING SENSIBLE THAT I AM UNABLE TO DO ANYTHING WITHOUT GOD' S HELP, I DO HUMBLY ENTREAT HIM BY HIS GRACE TO ENABLE ME TO KEEP THESE RESOLUTIONS, SO FAR AS THEY ARE AGREEABLE TO HIS WILL, FOR CHRIST' S SAKE.

Remember to read over these Resolutions once a week.

1. Resolved, that I will do whatsoever I think to be most to God' s glory, and my own good, profit and pleasure, in the whole of my duration, without any consideration of the time, whether now, or never so many myriads of ages hence. Resolved to do whatever I think to be my duty and most for the good and advantage of mankind in general. Resolved to do this, whatever difficulties I meet with, how many soever, and how great soever.

2. Resolved, to be continually endeavoring to find out some new contrivance and invention to promote the aforementioned things.

3. Resolved, if ever I shall fall and grow dull, so as to neglect to keep any part of these Resolutions, to repent of all I can remember, when I come to myself again.

4. Resolved, never to do any manner of thing, whether in soul or body, less or more, but what tends to the glory of God; nor be, nor suffer it, if I can avoid it.

5. Resolved, never to lose one moment of time; but improve it the most profitable way I possibly can.

6. Resolved, to live with all my might, while I do live.

7. Resolved, never to do anything, which I should be afraid to do, if it were the last hour of my life.

8. Resolved, to act, in all respects, both speaking and doing, as if nobody had been so vile as I, and as if I had committed the same sins, or had the same infirmities or failings as others; and that I will let the knowledge of their failings promote nothing but shame in myself, and prove only an occasion of my confessing my own sins and misery to God. July 30.

9. Resolved, to think much on all occasions of my own dying, and of the common circumstances which attend death.

10. Resolved, when I feel pain, to think of the pains of martyrdom, and of hell.

11. Resolved, when I think of any theorem in divinity to be solved, immediately to do what I can towards solving it, if circumstances do not hinder.

12. Resolved, if I take delight in it as a gratification of pride, or vanity, or on any such account, immediately to throw it by.

13. Resolved, to be endeavoring to find out fit objects of charity and liberality.

14. Resolved, never to do any thing out of revenge.

15. Resolved, never to suffer the least motions of anger towards irrational beings.

16. Resolved, never to speak evil of anyone, so that it shall tend to his dishonor, more or less, upon no account except for some real good.

17. Resolved, that I will live so, as I shall wish I had done when I come to die.

18. Resolved, to live so, at all times, as I think is best in my devout frames, and when I have clearest notions of things of the gospel, and another world.

19. Resolved, never to do any thing, which I should be afraid to do, if I expected it would not be above an hour, before I should hear the last trump.

20. Resolved, to maintain the strictest temperance, in eating and drinking.

21. Resolved, never to do any thing, which if I should see in another, I should count a just occasion to despise him for, or to think any way the more meanly of him. (Resolutions 1 through 21 written in one setting in New Haven in 1722)

22. Resolved, to endeavor to obtain for myself as much happiness, in the other world, as I possibly can, with all the power, might, vigor, and vehemence, yea violence, I am capable of, or can bring myself to exert, in any way that can be thought of.

23. Resolved, frequently to take some deliberate action, which seems most unlikely to be done, for the glory of God, and trace it back to the original intention, designs and ends of it; and if I find it not to be for God' s glory, to repute it as a breach of the 4th Resolution.

24. Resolved, whenever I do any conspicuously evil action, to trace it back, till I come to the original cause; and then, both carefully endeavor to do so no more, and to fight and pray with all my might against the original of it.

25. Resolved, to examine carefully, and constantly, what that one thing in me is, which causes me in the least to doubt of the love of God; and to direct all my forces against it.

26. Resolved, to cast away such things, as I find do abate my assurance.

27. Resolved, never willfully to omit any thing, except the omission be for the glory of God; and frequently to examine my omissions.

28. Resolved, to study the Scriptures so steadily, constantly and frequently, as that I may find, and plainly perceive myself to grow in the knowledge of the same.

29. Resolved, never to count that a prayer, nor to let that pass as a prayer, nor that as a petition of a prayer, which is so made, that I cannot hope that God will answer it; nor that as a confession, which I cannot hope God will accept.

30. Resolved, to strive to my utmost every week to be brought higher in religion, and to a higher exercise of grace, than I was the week before.

31. Resolved, never to say any thing at all against any body, but when it is perfectly agreeable to the highest degree of Christian honor, and of love to mankind, agreeable to the lowest humility, and sense of my own faults and failings, and agreeable to the golden rule; often, when I have said anything against anyone, to bring it to, and try it strictly by the test of this Resolution.

32. Resolved, to be strictly and firmly faithful to my trust, that that, in Proverbs 20:6,‹A faithful man who can find?Š may not be partly fulfilled in me.

33. Resolved, to do always, what I can towards making, maintaining, and preserving peace, when it can be done without overbalancing detriment in other respects. Dec. 26, 1722.

34. Resolved, in narrations never to speak any thing but the pure and simple verity.

35. Resolved, whenever I so much question whether I have done my duty, as that my quiet and calm is thereby disturbed, to set it down, and also how the question was resolved. Dec. 18, 1722.

36. Resolved, never to speak evil of any, except I have some particular good call for it. Dec. 19, 1722.

37. Resolved, to inquire every night, as I am going to bed, wherein I have been negligent,- what sin I have committed,-and wherein I have denied myself;-also at the end of every week, month and year. Dec. 22 and 26, 1722.

38. Resolved, never to speak anything that is ridiculous, sportive, or matter of laughter on the Lord' s day. Sabbath evening, Dec. 23, 1722.

39. Resolved, never to do any thing of which I so much question the lawfulness of, as that I intend, at the same time, to consider and examine afterwards, whether it be lawful or not; unless I as much question the lawfulness of the omission.

40. Resolved, to inquire every night, before I go to bed, whether I have acted in the best way I possibly could, with respect to eating and drinking. Jan. 7, 1723.

41. Resolved, to ask myself, at the end of every day, week, month and year, wherein I could possibly, in any respect, have done better. Jan. 11, 1723.

42. Resolved, frequently to renew the dedication of myself to God, which was made at my baptism; which I solemnly renewed, when I was received into the communion of the church; and which I have solemnly re-made this twelfth day of January, 1722-23.

43. Resolved, never, henceforward, till I die, to act as if I were any way my own, but entirely and altogether God' s; agreeable to what is to be found in Saturday, January 12, 1723.

44. Resolved, that no other end but religion, shall have any influence at all on any of my actions; and that no action shall be, in the least circumstance, any otherwise than the religious end will carry it. January 12, 1723.

45. Resolved, never to allow any pleasure or grief, joy or sorrow, nor any affection at all, nor any degree of affection, nor any circumstance relating to it, but what helps religion. Jan. 12 and 13, 1723.

46. Resolved, never to allow the least measure of any fretting uneasiness at my father or mother. Resolved to suffer no effects of it, so much as in the least alteration of speech, or motion of my eye: and to be especially careful of it with respect to any of our family.

47. Resolved, to endeavor, to my utmost, to deny whatever is not most agreeable to a good, and universally sweet and benevolent, quiet, peaceable, contented and easy, compassionate and generous, humble and meek, submissive and obliging, diligent and industrious, charitable and even, patient, moderate, forgiving and sincere temper; and to do at all times, what such a temper would lead me to; and to examine strictly, at the end of every week, whether I have done so. Sabbath morning. May 5, 1723.

48. Resolved, constantly, with the utmost niceness and diligence, and the strictest scrutiny, to be looking into the state of my soul, that I may know whether I have truly an interest in Christ or not; that when I come to die, I may not have any negligence respecting this to repent of. May 26, 1723.

49. Resolved, that this never shall be, if I can help it.

50. Resolved, I will act so as I think I shall judge would have been best, and most prudent, when I come into the future world. July 5, 1723.

51. Resolved, that I will act so, in every respect, as I think I shall wish I had done, if I should at last be ****ed. July 8, 1723.

52. I frequently hear persons in old age, say how they would live, if they were to live their lives over again: Resolved, that I will live just so as I can think I shall wish I had done, supposing I live to old age. July 8, 1723.

53. Resolved, to improve every opportunity, when I am in the best and happiest frame of mind, to cast and venture my soul on the Lord Jesus Christ, to trust and confide in him, and consecrate myself wholly to him; that from this I may have assurance of my safety, knowing that I confide in my Redeemer. July 8, 1723.

54. Whenever I hear anything spoken in conversation of any person, if I think it would be praiseworthy in me, Resolved to endeavor to imitate it. July 8, 1723.

55. Resolved, to endeavor to my utmost to act as I can think I should do, if, I had already seen the happiness of heaven, and hell torments. July 8, 1723.

56. Resolved, never to give over, nor in the least to slacken, my fight with my corruptions, however unsuccessful I may be.

57. Resolved, when I fear misfortunes and adversities, to examine whether I have done my duty, and resolve to do it, and let the event be just as providence orders it. I will as far as I can, be concerned about nothing but my duty, and my sin. June 9, and July 13 1723.

58. Resolved, not only to refrain from an air of dislike, fretfulness, and anger in conversation, but to exhibit an air of love, cheerfulness and benignity. May 27, and July 13, 1723.

59. Resolved, when I am most conscious of provocations to ill nature and anger, that I will strive most to feel and act good-naturedly; yea, at such times, to manifest good nature, though I think that in other respects it would be disadvantageous, and so as would be imprudent at other times. May 12, July 11, and July 13.

60. Resolved, whenever my feelings begin to appear in the least out of order, when I am conscious of the least uneasiness within, or the least irregularity without, I will then subject myself to the strictest examination. July 4, and 13, 1723.

61. Resolved, that I will not give way to that listlessness which I find unbends and relaxes my mind from being fully and fixedly set on religion, whatever excuse I may have for it-that what my listlessness inclines me to do, is best to be done, etc. May 21, and July 13, 1723.

62. Resolved, never to do anything but duty, and then according to Ephesians 6:6-8, to do it willingly and cheerfully as unto the Lord, and not to man:‹knowing that whatever good thing any man doth, the same shall he receive of the Lord.Š June 25 and July 13, 1723.

63. On the supposition, that there never was to be but one individual in the world, at any one time, who was properly a complete Christian, in all respects of a right stamp, having Christianity always shining in its true luster, and appearing excellent and lovely, from whatever part and under whatever character viewed: Resolved, to act just as I would do, if I strove with all my might to be that one, who should live in my time. January 14 and July 13, 1723.

64. Resolved, when I find those ‹groanings which cannot be utteredŠ (Romans 8:26), of which the Apostle speaks, and those‹breakings of soul for the longing it hath,Š of which the Psalmist speaks, Psalm 119:20, that I will promote them to the utmost of my power, and that I will not be weary of earnestly endeavoring to vent my desires, nor of the repetitions of such earnestness. July 23, and August 10, 1723.

65. Resolved, very much to exercise myself in this, all my life long, viz. with the greatest openness, of which I am capable of, to declare my ways to God, and lay open my soul to him: all my sins, temptations, difficulties, sorrows, fears, hopes, desires, and every thing, and every circumstance; according to Dr. Manton' s 27th Sermon on Psalm 119. July 26, and Aug.10 1723.

66. Resolved, that I will endeavor always to keep a benign aspect, and air of acting and speaking in all places, and in all companies, except it should so happen that duty requires otherwise.

67. Resolved, after afflictions, to inquire, what I am the better for them, what am I the better for them, and what I might have got by them.

68. Resolved, to confess frankly to myself all that which I find in myself, either infirmity or sin; and, if it be what concerns religion, also to confess the whole case to God, and implore needed help. July 23, and August 10, 1723.

69. Resolved, always to do that, which I shall wish I had done when I see others do it. August 11, 1723.

70. Let there be something of benevolence, in all that I speak.

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• Dec. 2, 2007 - Unique Spiritual Dynamics of our Family

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I have wondered of recent about our unique dynamic of developing spirituality in our family.

I am becoming aware of the need to take a look at fellowship. This I desire more of, yes. But how much of a place will fellowship with others take?

I have been impressed by the pioneer lifestyle. Many of the pioneers were Christ honoring believers... they  often did not have regular fellowship with those outside their own family. Maybe a few times a year? They gathered with friends and relatives. Many believers of today would consider this unspiritual. Are we all intended to be at church whenever the door is open? I personally don't think so. Many times the Lord has plans for us that do not include this. It however is important that we DO have a desire to be with fellow believers and encourage them and be encouraged!

I think the pioneer lifestyle is akin to the biblical missionary example. Meditating on this example concerning preserving and appreciating our own family's unique place in this world and in our own community is eye opening and imperative so that we may be salt and light to others who would not normally give hearing to the message of the gospel and lifestyle of the church .

When I take into consideration what our family is about I appreciate life more.

I have thought off and on about developing a family mission statement.

I see clearly a pattern of leading from the Spirit and it is so good to know that we don't have to do everything in a specific way to be assured that we are following Him.

Jacinda
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• Dec. 2, 2007 - Unique Family Dynamics

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I had to write something today about what I think the Lord has been showing me.

Not only is it more about GRACE but it is about sanity.

I think we too often try to box not only God into a mold but ourselves as well.

This is only met with increased frustration and actually works against moving forward in the life that the Lord has uniquely blessed us with.

NO family will be the same we have similarities yes; and we can learn from one another but we are not meant to duplicate each other.

We are all given special things to do in this life. We can not carryout our daily obligation if we are trying to be someone else.

What is our primary obligation?

It is to love the Lord our God and walk according to his Spirit daily.

We all have the same guidelines for godliness in His Word to us.

How we live out our lives is so unique though... we can not compare ourselves with anyone else.

This of course  includes our dear children and husband. They are not my neighbors family they are mine.

I could give lists of examples... I won't !

You'd probably be tempted to compare, right?

Much of life is an oxymoron. If we don't confuse ourselves we undoubtedly confuse others :^)

I have had more emotional and spiritual stability when I meditate on what the Lord has shown me and what He is directing me towards each day with regular adjustments in that same day!

It takes time to change our attitude toward expectations from ourselves and others that shape our thinking.

Blessings for the journey!

Jacinda Montalto
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• Oct. 22, 2007 - Home Churching

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I don't remember if I posted this here or not I know I posted it at my other blog because I just re-read it there ;^)

Maybe I felt it was too controversial to post here at the time I posted it??? I have tried to post my strongest doctrinal beliefs on the other blog because I want to respect that HSblogger as well as my personal friends that read here are diverse in doctrinal beliefs. I don't feel I should be a personal Holy Spirit to everyone. I enjoy expressing myself about doctrine or spiritual studies that I am doing and it has been a huge blessing to post my thoughts like a journal over at the e blogger.

This issue of worshiping at home came up again this weekend because we were so set on going to church this sunday and it just didn't happen!! I think I had less frustration over it than I might have in the past because I don't feel that missing church attendance means we are skipping spiritual time. We still had a lovely lesson with the kids! And my husband and I talked about some spiritual matters.

It's funny too because I have had some unsure moments about our family doing well in the church over the holidays because we don't celebrate Christmas or Easter. Or any type of Halloween celebration.
I don't even want to deal with being invited to this that or the other. Maybe I am just lazy about being creative in the way I respond to well meaning people.
Still a lot of pieces to the puzzle to fit together for us...

Hope you all had a spiritually blessed Sunday.


Home Churching

In our Christian experience we have been greatly blessed by the organized church as well as our personal devotions with the Lord.

Circumstantially we have found in the last several years that we can not always be a part of a local church.

We have had to find creative ways to still be fed and grow. And to train our children.

I use to teach a lot of Sunday School in the church so that has carried over to my interactions with my own children and Mike has always loved to pray with and read to his family. So we spend a fair amount of time as a family around the things of God.

We are learning as a couple to minister together to our family and community.

I learnt the hard way to be more submissive and it has meant a world of change in our daily lives. We are still on the road to recovery from me stepping into the lead position for the better part of our early marriage.

Mostly, we keep learning and growing through talking and speaking about the things of the Lord as we walk in the way. A very relaxed process...

We listen to all the FEA sermons that come our way.

I enjoy keeping in contact with sisters in the Lord via email that have enriched my life beyond what I could have hoped for.

We have ventured out to seek fellowship in our current area once again.

We visited several times a little country Baptist church north of us in MI and had much discussion with the pastor there.

We just started attending an Independent Fundamental Baptist Church just south of us that seems to be the direction the Lord is taking us for any local fellowship.

Mike is more open to moving beyond the hurt from all the church confusion!

He is excited about the positive possibilities once again.

I know I have worked through most of my hurts over the last year.

Mostly we think the time we have spent out of the local church has been a good thing.

How can this be?

Well, we have taken a lot more time to think about what we believe and why as well as how are we personally going to live this out?

Rather than being moved by others we feel we have been moved more by our personal relationships with the Lord and the Holy Spirit.

This has been huge for my husband who was under a lot of stress for years feeling a failure because of myself and other well meaning Christians who had the mentality that Church attendance should be of highest priority!

We needed this time to reflect and be more grounded in our walk.

I especially had to realize that leading our own family was priority over church attendance.

Prioritizing a bit different than others might.

We had to say to ourselves"Who is gonna feed us when we are 'unable?' " Unable to make it all happen out of exhaustion, lack of finances, housing problems, illness, discipline problems with our children, marital problems etc...

We are well aware that one need not be perfect in the church the point is; that how can we focus on the specific areas that WE need to, to keep our family together if we are running around trying to be involved in the activities of the church? Some are strong enough Christians to say no to a myriad of 'good activities' without feeling false guilt but we were not such ones. This caused a lot of frustration and stunted our growth.
I especially wanted to give back EVERYTHING because I was so thankful to the Lord for saving me out of the pit. I often put my desire for serving others before my own husband and this was not helping our marriage to solidify. My attitude was not always 'godly' when I was faced with confusion in prioritizing my new life as a married woman.

If from the pulpit we are constantly being told to focus on others/ and the church program because this is the unselfish way to live... Then what happens when we need to come home to our specific dynamics and work through to growth and stability?

How does the man learn to lead his own family first as the example in the Bible shows us is priority over serving the church... if he is committing his precious spare time left after he fulfills his obligation to work to support his family?
And then often faced with the pure disappointment of being confronted with less than fundamental ideas. How exhausting it is to be putting forth all the effort needed to make it to a bible study and then be confronted with Promise Keepers and it's mentality rather than focus on the Word!

Is over looking the mandate for men to lead there own family first one of the leading causes for moral failure or divorce in the church? We think so.

We have so much more to learn and put into place in our lives.

Through it all we have learned to Trust Him more than we did before.

We also have come to understand the unsaved more than before.

I think in some ways our personal ministry is more effective because others can see we don't expect them to just go to church!

A matter of fact they seem to recognize more that being godly is not directly related to church going.

They seem to see us more as real people that struggle along at times and yet don't settle for just being comfortable in a community that we would be more accepted in.

Carving out time for more formal spiritual devotions isn't always easy but we are getting more regular.

The children and I read a lot.

And Luke has requested that Mike and I sing for them together regularly

;^0)

Both boys have a clear understanding of salvation and have made professions of faith.

Because of Mike's work schedule sometimes our best efforts to get ready for the local church on Sunday do not get us there. So it is so nice that we usually have a family devotion in place that we can continue through in the place of attending the local church fellowship.

We are learning to feed ourselves!

I don't know what tomorrow brings but, I do know who brings tomorrow!

Let Jesus be our priority in life!

Let's not put the FAMILY above the Lord but let's do allow the Lord be the Lord of our family.
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• Oct. 14, 2007 - Blessing

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I have been studying the Blessings from God's word that we can pray over our families.

Here is  a great Messianic site that I thought you might enjoy.


Here are a few more I had on my bookmarks listing that I plan to re- explore.

Torah Tots

Karaite Korner

Article on the Prayer Shawl



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• Oct. 8, 2007 - Choose Joy

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I have been exploring what real joy is over many years and I think I have come to a conclusion though I still would like to experience more of this joy in the years I have left on this earth.

I think real joy is the kind that you can have in the deepest sorrows and during the realization of the most  grievous sin.

It is the joy that comes from trusting and believing God when He says He is our all in all.

This kind of joy is what the lost seek... when they find it they rejoice and turn form sin praising God.

I want to have this radiate from my life so others might have life too.
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• Oct. 2, 2007 - Humility

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We are doing a unit on Humility for our morning devotions.

I am using the Character Journal

There are so many great points given on the journal that I decided to just take a few and return to the topic again in the future as the children mature we can get a deeper study started.

This will be our verse to memorize and reflect on


Proverbs 29:23
A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit.


I will read and expound on this account in the Bible...
  • The story of Nebuchadnezzar in Daniel chapter 4
Important points to ponder...
  • Humility is recognising that God and others are actually responsible for the achievements in my life
  • Pride is believing that we have achieved what in reality God and others have achieved for us


Questions I am asking myself...

What comments can we give in response to the Be all that you can be, anything you wanna be slogan's of the world?

When we do good... and some one praises us what should our response be?

Can we admit we are wrong at times and ask for forgiveness?

Do we try to rule the home with anger?

Do we listen to what our children are saying or do we hold pride in being the one in charge?

 I will continue to add to this as we go along.

4-6-2008

Last week I happened upon some LiriVox sermons from Andrew Murray!
The writings of Andrew Murray have been a huge blessing to me/ us.

Humility: The Beauty of Holiness was very powerful to hear. Please consider listening.

The thing that it brought to light is that ALL other virtue is built upon
- produced by first receiving humility of heart.

I plan on revisiting this sermon several times. It has produced some real change of heart and renewing of my mind to grasp this precept a little more than before.

May God bless you abundantly in our walk with Him.
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• Oct. 2, 2007 - Stirring of the Spirit

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The witness of the Holy Spirit

Luke was so excited to be with those little christian girls the other evening that he felt free to be making little crosses in the sand with a stick. Then a little boy came along and asked what he was doing and Luke  asked did this little boy love Jesus the boy said "yes" but then Luke said "Do you know HIm?" The boy said "no." Then his parents that were on the other side of the playground called him over...

I just thought  this was special because we so often talk about playing with the nice kids or leaving if things are going bad. So the boys get the impression we are focusing on if these kids are good or bad but Luke is seeing it is really an issue of are they believing Jesus and pleasing him or not. This was a 'nice' boy to talk to  while playing in the sand together.

The sweetest thing is the child like way the boys were interacting and the impression it put on my heart. Luke the christian was not pushing, manipulating, or planning what he was gonna say. These boys were just talking in a relaxed friendly way in total childlikeness!
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• Oct. 2, 2007 - Fellowship

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A few Sunday evenings ago the children and I  were playing at the local park and we met some sweet Christians. Four little girls saw us nearing the park and came to greet us! They were so loving!

Lina and Sophia especially go lots of attention.

Before we all parted I was given their phone number and had a couple options for possible fellowship.

My husband and I were most comfortable with the idea of meeting a group of families that did kinda like a home church.

So this Sunday Mike stayed home with the children as they aren't ready to sit through a whole service and Mike often gets home so early in the morning that he has a hard time waking for morning activities.
 I went by myself to their meeting, it was a great blessing.

We are unsure how we might fit in to this group there are many commonalities... families that primarily homeschool, do not limit family size, are conservative in dress, and real sweet christian spirit amongst them.

The talk on witnessing was quite balanced and I got a lot out of it.

Prayer and hymn singing was sweet.

Doctrinally it seems just from comment by one of the men is diverse. This is where my concern lies.

We have generally been very forth right in our biblical views on most areas of doctrine.

We have even felt it a ministry of ours to stand for certain views that if not upheld seem to bring confusion and weakness in christian lives and the church.  

So we are waiting to find out what doctrinal diversity they were referring to. I so much don't want to have to pull away.

My husband will go for the first half of the meeting this coming Sunday and then I will join him with the children, Lord willing. Then there is a meal being shared so it will be a nice way to get to know some others.
 
I know we so need to be amongst other Christians and be stirred in love by fellowship.

It is a great blessing to have this opportunity.

One day and step at a time with you Lord Jesus.
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• Sep. 24, 2007 - The Toledo Blade Report on ConAgra Foods

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I am so proud of my husband for not getting too discouraged to keep doing a good job at his workplace!

Thank you Michael for showing a good example.



Archbold ConAgra Foods plant's closure averted

Reversal of plans saves 300 to 350 jobs
 


ARCHBOLD, Ohio - A year ago, packaged-food maker ConAgra Foods Inc. gathered its employees at Sauder Village to tell them the canning facility would close within months to cut costs.
The company used the same location yesterday to make another unexpected announcement: The plant that makes Healthy Choice soup and La Choy products won't be shuttered, and the 300 to 350 workers will keep their jobs.
The reversal occurred after executives determined the plant was more important to company operations than initially realized, spokesman Stephanie Childs said.
Employees reacted to the announcement with cheers and applause.
"It is something that I have never experienced," said union official Dale Parker, who represents workers at the plant in Fulton County about 50 miles southwest of Toledo.
"Employees were ecstatic," said Mr. Parker of Toledo Local 911 of the United Food & Commercial Workers. "It was a very emotional day."
"Now I don't have to look for a new job," employee Pat Severence, who has worked 27 years at the plant, said. "I can look forward to retiring from the plant."
Ms. Severence of Bryan and her co-workers were given the day off with pay.
The news wasn't so good for 100 workers at a ConAgra plant in Perrysburg Township on Glenwood Road off State Rt. 795.
Executives will follow through on announced plans to shut the factory Nov. 30.
The closing in Archbold was initially set for January but was postponed until May and then November.
In an effort to save the plant, employees pulled together to boost productivity, the union representative said.
"That made a big difference and carried a lot of weight, in my opinion, in the decision," he said. "They were running well over 80 percent efficiency on a daily basis."
Veteran workers at the Archbold plant, which operates two production shifts, are paid $15 to $23 an hour, plus about $10 an hour in benefits, according to union leaders.
"This is very good news and resounds certainly beyond Archbold and into the many communities that surround us," said Jim Wyse, Archbold mayor.
The village last month discounted the plant's water rates in hopes of averting the closing and convincing officials to bring in new work.
"This means that we will retain our largest water customer," the mayor said, noting the facility uses 20 million gallons a month. "From the village's perspective, that is a huge thing."
For now, the company isn't talking about boosting production in Archbold. But "we see new opportunities for our canning manufacturing operation," the ConAgra spokesman said.
Ann Bleikamp, who has worked at the plant for 25 years, doubts the plant could have been saved without the collective efforts of employees, managers, union leaders, and village officials.
"A year ago I was devastated and today was a new beginning," she said. "We put our minds together to make the best of the situation and work together."
Contact Mark Reiter at markreiter@theblade.com or 419-724-6096.
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• Sep. 22, 2007 - The DAVID FACTOR

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This is something that has been impressing itself upon my mind and heart.

How often we can recognize a wrong being committed by ourselves or our children stemming from NOT doing what we should be. A simple example is ... If we come up against our school aged children goofing off thus hurting another, breaking something, spilling something, waking the baby, hurting themselves etc... the list can go on!

HOW VERY OFTEN IS THIS BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT DOING WHAT YOU PURPOSED FOR THEM>

If they were to be doing a chore, working on school work, or simply sitting and reading verses what they chose to do that caused all the trouble!

Just like DAVID and his great sin with Bathsheba!

Thus my term the David Factor.

What a beautiful man he was a man after  God's own heart yet he sinned against Him and others.

We all are like this... we don't want our children to be scarred or to scar others by their sinfulness.

I try to tell the children WHY this upset happened WHY everyone is so unhappy at this moment or this hour... because of sin and willfulness.

Let's all avoid it! With the Power of the Blood of Christ and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit!
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• Sep. 17, 2007 - Stone Soup

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We had a great time reading a version of the old Folk Tale Stone Soup.

We then made some soup out of the remaining veggies in our garden and some other veggies we had to finish up from the fridge. I even let Luke put a stone in the pot. Who knows maybe it will have added a bit of needed minerals.

We also viewed a video about a boy lost in the wilderness who struggled to survive with the help of his trusty dog!  The boys talked a lot about what you can do to get protein if you need to ie.  worms, beetles, and even small field mice if nothing else! We also talked about if we had to kill a larger animal like a cute bunny that it wouldn't be easy but that it wouldn't be wrong either!

Timmy talks often about going camping... he would love it! So would Luke we don't have any equipment so I doubt we can do something like that but I think mini experiences would be more feasible. Learning to start a fire, use a pocket knife, make a lean too, etc...

I plan on teaching some sewing this week.

Then maybe we would be blessed in the future to be able to do a real camping trip or when they are older they could go with friends or something.

I wanted to comment on the Keepers of the Faith program I really like it! I was just introduced to it via a catalog that came in the mail and then found that a few of my online friends are doing it or planning to.

I would like to take the kids' birthday money from great grandma and buy their guides. Even if we  can't buy the badges until some later date doing the activities would be a blessing. I like the character series based on the Bible too.

I won't be too disappointed if we can't buy the Keepers of the Faith character booklets because I found this  source is very good for ideas as well as this one.

We are starting with Humility.

We will probably take weeks on one character study because we will read and memorize slowly each day.
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• Sep. 5, 2007 - Rosh Hashana

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I am so pleased to be planning a time to recognize the feast Rosh Hashana.Ideas for celebration
One thing we have done so far is plant two apple trees in our back yard. In the future we can dip our own apples in honey LOL How neat!
It is so amazing the rich spiritual significance that the feasts have. They actually point to the Lord Jesus Christ and in fact help us appreciate Him and his people more! Click here to learn more biblical holidays
There are no other holidays that point directly to Christ with such intensity. If they did at one time in history they no longer hold that significance.The hedonistic society we live in has eroded it's value!
Even when celebrating Christmas for instance, as a believer... I never felt there was such deep meaning  in the celebrations.
I did however have a lot of moments of deeper reflection around Easter/ resurrection sunday but I think what strikes me the most about the traditions of the jews is they make lots of time for prayer and reflection... I don't think most christians appreciate the importance of carving out time for a simple day much less a simple week of reflection.
This sort of lifestyle is counter culture so it isn't something you can just DO because you want to but I do think if the Lord wills it, adjustments can be made over time. We are taking babysteps right now.

I think even if we become fairly involved in a local church we will be molding our lifestyle more to the hebrew model.

I especially plan to develop the attitude about children that they do. That by 12/13 they will be given adult responsibilities. So this means I have to be determined to work with them now to develop that ability.
I read that in jewish society there is very little teenage type problems because the kids KNOW what is expected of them and they feel more secure in the process of being a responsible person. Therefore they have little baggage from rebellion to take on into their 20's. They can just start out more well rounded happy and healthy. Makes a lot of sense to me. Too many parents set their kids up for failure in young adult stage because that is the expected outcome. So defeatist!

We LOVE reading and watching films on the jews be it people in biblical times like Abraham and Jacob and Tim's fav MOSES or people of the holocaust. Tim especially seems to understand that God's word introduces us to types of Christ. Luke and Timmy have a lot of compassion for the people of the holocaust and those who hid them.

Btw I was reading recently about a pastor and his wife that preached the gospel in Romania after the war,  that were thrown into the communist camps. for 14 years.  This is a part of history I hadn't really taken in before.

I enjoy learning and thinking on this. I  am sure to write more in the future about what we do and learn.
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• Aug. 25, 2007 - Random Thoughts on being pruned of pride

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I have often been embarrassed when others take notice that we have had a lot of STUFF going on in our lives. I have even shied away from possible friendship with others on the basis of thinking they would think we are just nuts... their lives seem so calm you know with an occasional bump in the road while our is almost constantly rocky.

I also have spent an absorbent amount of time and energy trying to make sure the people that we are in contact  understand us.

I think the Lord is trying to show us that we need not be ashamed!

There is soo much that IS out of ones control in life so why should we always try to shoulder the responsibility of every bump we encounter. Does God expect this of us? or is it our "pride of life" and trying to meet others expectations what delivers the most emotional blows!

I was slightly embarrassed yesterday when I went to a food pantry and was told that I couldn't get a food box.

I explained that this all was fairly new to me and I'd only ever received one food box very recently and that  was from them. Then I stopped short and explained that no one had told me that there was a rule of only one box per every two months given to a household. It had been a little over one month since asking for help there.

 I know most places are pretty much forced to be run by rules and regulations and not people and situations.

But was it important to have all that conversation?... that just led me to want to explain farther as to why I was there in the first place of which I did not do... The Lord was just saying put down your pride of life and stop trying to explain everything that I am letting you go through... just go through it with me and know I have my special purposes for it all. Trust ME.

Same with my doctors appointment this week. I found myself in the position of wanting to defend my choices. Choices that have been custom  made to fit our situation, OUR LIFE. the norm or the expected will not do... they often only add more obstacles to the journey.

I so much need to, want to,  lay down the pride of life.
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• Aug. 24, 2007 - Treasure Entrusted

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We have had another another miscarriage.

It is our wish to never down play miscarriage.

Death is a difficult thing but it has it's purpose and the Lord allows these things for His greater glory.

If we remain closed and silent about death then how can we proclaim the richness of life in Jesus?

How can we maintain the sanctity of life ? 

I have often thought that silence through miscarriage is something that gives abortion the power to continue to increase with every decade!

The life in the womb is as sacred as the miracle of birth.

Death comes through sin but the life in Jesus is eternal.

Death was overcome by HIM.

Let us all lead others to the cross and to their salvation through our daily walk with the Lord.

 What He allows has it's special purposes.

Even if we can't fully understand.

               We can trust!


One thing that helps is grieving in private and commiting your grief to the Lord.

Dwell on His word and place your trust fully in Him about this.

Some need to write to express their thoughts and heart. This is good to do!

Experiencing a miscarriage is often a lonely matter.
Most people do not know how to express themselves about death.
Many try real hard not  to ever address it! Especially those that do not have full assurance of a heavenly home awaiting them in their own death.
Having you share your  experience forces them to contemplate something profound.
It is a personal thing for each of us and we should have patience for them just as we hope for them to have patience for us.

Here is a poem I wrote this morning it is not a great poem but it was what was in my heart at the time.

              Treasured

You were a treasure on earth
and now you are in heaven.

I weep but there is joy.

I know I will someday meet you my little jewel!

You are glistening in His light even now.

Waiting in His arms contentedly.


Because of His love and care
you know you are more than a  trophy sitting there.

You were simply  being knit for glory
and have already helped tell the story
of the one who came to earth to show us the Father's grace
and prepare that special heavenly place.


Some might say you were an accident
but I will defend that you are a little jewel.

If they could only know!

Just because you didn't grow...

Still you were a perfect part of God's plan.

You were used by the Master to reach man.


We were all so privileged to have you with us.

You stayed as long as you could.


Mommy, Daddy, brothers and sisters won't see you into  toddlerhood.

But will wait until we stand in glory for the blessing of your presence once again.


We will think of you until then as...

Our little glistening jewel

Always in His care and covered by the holy light.




Our special baby entered glory August 2007.
We named him Philip Jordan Montalto
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• Aug. 19, 2007 - Tyndale

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Tyndale
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• Aug. 13, 2007 - Living Counter Culture

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Living counter culture is for those that cling to their faith.

I do not think that it is a matter of courage!

I think it is a matter of sure faith in the one that holds our lives in His hands, though unseen He can be trusted.

We may waiver or become intimidated by a trial but He is sure to give strength.

Repentance of our times of unbelief and with bended knee rededicating to submission is only produced by the Holy Spirit himself.
How can we ever doubt Him when it is even He that gives the grace for our daily living!?!

I like things slow in life so I have plenty of time to think out decisions and learn from life. It isn't always  with in ones own control but it is an exercise worth trying regularly!

Seems peace is more common when I live in the slow lane. Not just because less is happening to distract but because there is more assurance in that I took it to the Lord, and shared my thoughts with Him, and listened to what He might say to me through His word about anyone thing.

That is called a relationship.

When we seek His face all other forms of acceptance pale in comparison.

The key is though that we must take time to be sure that we are in His light not simply walking in the approval of our own little group and thus falsely think that we are in His will.

We MUST distinguish the difference and this means cutting through emotion based decisions.


Dear Lord

 Let us lean upon you and your word for the grace we need in our daily living! Let our hearts  be so intertwined with your word that we make better decisions as we go along the way. Amen
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