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May. 19, 2008

My mother is coming

Tomorrow afternoon my mother arrives.  I haven't seen her since last year.  We basically get to see her once a year.  She lives in FL and I live in PA.  She works one day a week and thinks that my family should come to see her -- I have six children -- one is in the Marine Corps stationed in SC, one is graduating next week and leaving for the Army and the rest are homeschooled and involved in a lot of activities. 

Don't get me wrong.  I love my life.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  I just think that it is easier for her to visit us.  She doesn't think so.  I look at my friends who have less children and have mothers who help them so much and it is hard because I feel like I can never do enough for my mom.  Did I mention that my mom is only 60 years old and in perfect health?

So my prayer for the day is that I find the patience and love to show my mother while she is here. 

If anyone has any advice for me -- I would greatly appreciate it!!

God Bless, Michelle
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May. 26, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Kayluray
I am so with you in not wanting to travel to visit family. I live about 4 hours away from most of my family and it's hard to travel with my youngest who is a 3 year old boy. Delightful as he is, he gets restless quickly and wants to take frequent potty breaks. I think it's hard living in a time when family is spread from one coast to the next. I often wish I had stayed nearer my hometown so I could be close to that family and I dread the day my children start moving out of the house. I pray that they stay near enough that I can help when needed.
You are in my prayers today.
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May. 27, 2008 - Thanks!

Posted by abundantblessings
for visiting my blog and sharing such a nice comment!!

Glad I could encourage you today!!!

Blessings,
Laurie
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May. 27, 2008 - Hmm...

Posted by abundantblessings
just read your post....

I always try to remember this...we feel sort of like we are starting over...that we are "beginning" a new family way.... I want to be those things for my children..I can't expect others to change to suit me (no matter how much I wish I could!!).

Just keep in mind that you are teaching your children...and through seeing you struggle, they may come to know the "right" way to do things. It's sad that you can't have what you so desire in this...but know that you can give this to your children..and they can give it to their children....

Praying for you!!

Blessings,
Laurie
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Jun. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MamaJ
I agree with Laurie,

I have some of the same issues with my own mother. I don't want to burden my children with some of the tensions that I carry toward my mother. It is so hard. It's so easy to get bitter and resentful. I'll pray that God can calm your heart and He can minister to your mother through you. Hang in there. God bless.

Mama J.
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Jun. 2, 2008 - Family!

Posted by littlebylittle
Families can be tricky to work out sometimes. I know that it must cause you some frustration that she is unwilling to travel to you more regularly and unable to help out more often. Perhaps you should accept it as that. Would your kids be willing to write to her regularly - there are many other ways to make her a part of your lives.

Also, perhaps you could "Adopt" a grandma from your local church or retirement home, and have someone to care for and be cared for by who lives closer?
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