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• Jul. 16, 2008 - On this day in history . . .

I was crashed out in a hospital room as swollen as a pufferfish with full blown eclampsia 3 weeks before my due date. My blood pressure kept skyrocketing and I was a bit foggy about all that was happening. Nothing went quite like planned and yet there were blessings. I saw what a blessing it was to have a husband who would make good decisions for me when I was out of it and what a blessing it was to have a doctor who I knew was caring for me the way he'd want his own wife to be treated. I still remember feeling "safe" even when I was very out of my element with a very medical birth.

Hours later, Jon Carter made his appearance and melted all of our hearts. Weighing in at 8 lbs., he was only 3 ounces less than his big brothers were at delivery. He had Carter Kid written all over him. He was my first sling baby and I treasured every moment of getting to hold him close to me. I knew the whole time that I was pregnant with him that he was a snuggler and that has definitely proven to be true.

Even as an official seven year old today, you can often find him coming into our bed in the wee hours of the morning or joining me in my recliner "just to sit together" for a while as we start the day.


The mystery and miracle of childbirth is not lost on me. Today we celebrate Jon's 7th birthday, thankful for God's hand of protection over all of us and for the blessing of children!

Hope you all are having a wonderful week!



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• Jul. 11, 2008 - Pardon me, while I share something a little more serious...

Posted in Inspirational
The other day I was driving in the car and heard just a few moments of some Christian radio talk show. The person was talking about how the "aches" in our lives really serve a good purpose - they remind us that this world is not our home and stir on our yearning for Heaven. Even though I just heard mere moments of the show and I don't even know what the show was or who the speaker was, those words have stuck with me.

This world is an imperfect place. It's made up of imperfect people. I think most of us have difficult relationships and situations in our lives and it's all just a matter of how much room we give God to work in them.

Some people just go passive and don't deal with them. They try to pretend that they don't bother them or that they really don't care. They emotionally check out while the ache just takes root and grows.

Some people rush to try and fix them. They almost go into hyperdrive, demanding that the situation be dealt with promptly and in the way they deem appropriate. If they can't "fix" the situation, they struggle to participate in an imperfect one.

Some people try and struggle, try and struggle. Their situations may not resolve in a pretty wrapped package, but yet they keep working through it with God's grace. Through it all they are reminded that, "All things work together for good for those who are called according to His purpose."

I know that in my own life, I've had times of dealing with major issues - times when I felt unloved, tricked, deceived, misunderstood, misrepresented, forgotten, and abandoned. I felt that ache until I wondered if my heart could physically break from the pain. And while I believe that working through the pain is part of the process, here's what I've learned:

I needed to keep my eyes on my Savior and off of the situation. He always has my best interests at heart and He has a purpose in allowing the trials. He doesn't want me to go passive and just stop caring nor does He want me to demand my way in the situation - sometimes He just wants me to be and to wait on Him and His timing.

If the ache does nothing more than help me to realize the totally amazing gift of His unconditional love and His promise to never leave me nor forsake me, then the ache is ok. If the ache reminds me that He is my advocate and knows the deepest desires of my heart, then I have to be thankful for it.

The ache somehow can point me back to the One who won't go passive and give up on me or check out of my life.  The ache can point me back to the One who is King of Kings, yet is patient even with one like me.  The ache can point me back to the Father who welcomes home the prodigal son or the Lover who chases after their beloved.

And that ache always leaves me fully resting at the Throne of Grace - which is a good place to be. It's not always comfortable and it doesn't always look like we might imagine it, but it's the place of wholeness, where healing happens time and time again.

I'm back at that place again, dealing with some wounds and disappointments. It's always weird to me how the anniversary of my father's death seems to stir things up for me even when I'm not thinking about the date. For years, it frustrated me to continue to battle certain issues, but now I'm starting to learn to be thankful for the growth and healing that has taken place without requiring that it all look so perfect.

For now I just rest in His grace and His promises and His love for me ~ even in this imperfect world. And I continue trying and struggling and loving even when it's hard because He does that for us.

I'm sure that many of you can relate to what I'm talking about and if any of you feel led to pray for me - for strength and courage to keep on keeping on even when I'm tired, worn-out, and exhausted, I'd appreciate it. Lots of wonderful things are going on and I need to really enjoy them - even if they aren't the perfect way that I would imagine them.



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• Jul. 7, 2008 - A few pictures

Thanks for all your words of encouragement and empathy on the clutter post. I am SO going to tackle that humongous stack of magazines and report in once I'm finished.

Meanwhile let's think of other things. (I can procrastinate with the best of them!)

Baab's really not a baby anymore. He's pretty much a free range sheep and just happens to think he's one of the dogs now. He even ran up to greet the mail carrier when she brought us a package today. If he starts barking, I will SO post a video!

Bill's doing well. He appreciates having his nose rubbed down with flyspray!

Buffy the Buff Orpington has hatched out another set of chicks. This time we left her alone and she's keeping them in the tall grass safely away from all the cats. Looks like this little guy is none too pleased about being away from his mom to have his picture taken.

And finally here's a Mary Jane photo for all of the Mary Jane fans out there.

Have a great week!


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• Jul. 7, 2008 - Help! I'm Drowning in Stuff!!

Is it a little late to be doing Spring Cleaning?

For some reason, our upcoming vacation totally has me in clean-out mode. The problem is figuring out what to do with all of this "stuff".

Tony and the boys came in the office to help me clean and organize my area yesterday, but didn't get much further than Tony's desk and bookshelf.

I just have so many different components to all of my stuff:
  • household records & financials
  • family photos, scrapbook items, mementos
  • crafty type things
  • homeschool books & recordkeeping
  • homeschool support group items
  • Office supplies
  • Work 3-ring binders & magazines
  • Magazines for reference
So, do any of you want to give me any pointers about organizing my office? Or better yet, just come over and hold my hand while I do it? I know that it's totally ridiculous to practically have a meltdown at the thought of trying to conquer the papers and magazines on my desk, but that's where I am to be honest.

And how do you all deal with old magazines? I don't want to turn into one of those people on Dateline who has cluttered her house with old magazines and paperwork until all that's left is a path to navigate through the maze of it all. Yet, we actually do use many of these magazines for reference or pass them along to others. They aren't your typical women's magazines. I'm talking Countryside (the most useful info around), Mother Earth News (lots of good stuff there too), Hobby Farms (I love them, but maybe I could part with them), Mary Jane's Farm (NO WAY, I'm getting rid of them), Country (I love, love, love all the photos), and then of course The Old Schoolhouse (non-negotiable - I actually have ALL of them to keep on hand for reference.)

We've got lots of fun stuff coming up for our family and of course, I STILL have to get things ready for the boys' fall schoolwork. AND we just got our first squash out of the garden yesterday.

There is always so much to do, but it's all very good and sooooo worth it!
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• Jul. 2, 2008 - The Dynamic Duo


Well Jake finally decided that it was time for Jon to learn to ride his bike.
He's a good brother and decided to start him off in the grass
instead of on our gravel driveway.
He's thoughtful like that.


Joe's staying busy getting things ready for hunting season at Western Kentucky Outdoor Adventures , but I'm thankful these two are getting to enjoy lots of summertime fun together.

How good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity! Psalms 133:1

Finally it was time to get a little help from Dad and give it a try on the pavement.

And so it goes, another one of the boys rounds the corner and takes off on his first set of wheels.

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• Jul. 2, 2008 - Momma Said There'd Be Days Like This

Posted in Funny Farm
I enjoy putting together a jigsaw puzzle.
Especially one that has lots of smaller things within the larger picture so that it's easier to match up words, lines, colors, etc...


This one definitely fits the bill.


Did you just start humming You Ain't Nothin But a Hounddog?! Go ahead and admit it. Oh you weren't? Well you probably are now.

However I just ran into ONE little problem with the puzzle. I mean I conquered putting together all different pictures of Elvis' face. Some black and white, some color, some big, some small.

But then I just ran into this one teeny, tiny, eeensy weeensy, little problem . . .


ONE. MISSING. PIECE.

We looked all over the table. We looked under the table, in the box, on the floor, in the chairs, on and on and on. And I'm just thinking that I, my friends, am not just one french fry short of a happy meal or a few bricks shy of a load, apparently I actually am one piece shy of a thousand piece puzzle.

Poor Elvis.

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• Jun. 25, 2008 - Color Coded Nature Walks


Noticed this flower on our walk at the creek last week.

Since this week's topic for The Homeschool Minute was the Charlotte Mason Method, I thought I'd pass along a neat entry I read this morning.

In her Color Coded Nature Walks entry, Scribbit shares a great idea for coloring the inside compartments of an egg carton and then having the kids find items that match each color as you go on a nature walk. She also offers some variations on the idea like writing letters in each compartment  and finding items that start with that letter, or just using the compartments for items that are native to your area.

Sounds like a GREAT idea to me!



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• Jun. 24, 2008 - Your I-Spy for the day


Can you find the crawdad?


According to Wikipedia:

Crayfish, crawfish, or crawdads, are freshwater crustaceans resembling small lobsters, to which they are closely related. They breathe through feather-like gills and are found in bodies of water that do not freeze to the bottom; they are also mostly found in brooks and streams where there is fresh water running, and which have shelter against predators.

The body of a decapod crustacean, such as a crab, lobster, or prawn, is made up of nineteen body segments grouped into two main body parts, the cephalothorax and the abdomen. Each segment may possess one pair of appendages, although in various groups these may be reduced or missing. A crayfish is usually 7.5 centimeters long, but may grow larger.

Crayfish are eaten in Europe, China, Africa, Australia, Canada and the United States. 98% of the crayfish harvested in the United States come from Louisiana, where the standard culinary terms are crawfish or écrevisses.

Louisiana crawfish are usually boiled live in a large pot with heavy seasoning (salt, cayenne pepper, lemon, garlic, bay leaves, etc.) and other items such as potatoes, maize, onions, garlic, and sausage. They are generally served at a gathering known as a crawfish boil. Other popular dishes in the Cajun and Creole cuisines of Louisiana include crawfish étouffée, crawfish pie, crawfish dressing, crawfish bread, and crawfish beignets [5], and crayfish are an ingredient in Chicken Marengo.

Like other edible crustaceans, only a small portion of the body of a crayfish is edible. In most prepared dishes, such as soups, bisques and étouffées, only the tail portion is served. At crawfish boils or other meals where the entire body of the crayfish is presented, however, other portions may be eaten. Claws of larger boiled specimens are often pulled apart to access the meat inside. Another favourite is to suck the head of the crayfish, as seasoning and flavour can collect in the fat of the boiled interior.

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• Jun. 18, 2008 - Great Craft Ideas & Dealing with the Heat


As I was reading through my Bloglines this morning, Like Merchant Ships sent me over to Zakka Life for some creative uses for little toys. Oh. My. Word. I just loved all the links there. I used to do fun stuff like that. I think they've inspired me to try it again. Y'all check that link out and be sure to check out the pages she links to. You'll be inspired too!

And if you've found yourself a bit stressed with the rising gas and grocery prices, the upcoming election, and all the gloom and doom in the news, check out resolved2worship's entry this morning on When the Heat Comes. It's a good reminder to check where you're putting your trust.

As Christians fully rooted in Christ, we need to pull from that River of Life, the Living Water day-by-day, moment-by-moment. The heat is definitely gonna come, but we have that River of Life flowing within us and because of that, we can take the heat, dig down deep, and remain strong through it all.

 This is what the LORD says:
       "Cursed is the one who trusts in man,
       who depends on flesh for his strength
       and whose heart turns away from the LORD.

   He will be like a bush in the wastelands;
       he will not see prosperity when it comes.
       He will dwell in the parched places of the desert,
       in a salt land where no one lives.

   "But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD,
       whose confidence is in him.

  He will be like a tree planted by the water
       that sends out its roots by the stream.
       It does not fear when heat comes;
       its leaves are always green.
       It has no worries in a year of drought
       and never fails to bear fruit."
                  Jeremiah 17:5 - 8


Happy Wednesday y'all.


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• Jun. 17, 2008 - Coolin off at the creek


When it's a zillion degrees outside, you can find us here -


Cuz you know it's hot when even the cats
are tagging along to the creek.



I mean at this point,
I thought they were actually going to hop right in.



We're used to Faith hanging out with us at the creek. She's a pretty good swimmer. And I think she kind of looks like a river otter or something.



Meanwhile Tony and the boys (and a couple of dogs) were busy catching crawdads.



And boy howdy, they caught plenty of the little buggers.


And then I realized that maybe THAT was why the kitties were following us.
Mmmm, crawdads...



But soon enough it was time to head back towards the house.
SOMEBODY in our group was dog tired.


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