{"id":134,"date":"2022-05-18T06:00:55","date_gmt":"2022-05-18T06:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/?p=134"},"modified":"2022-05-01T19:52:24","modified_gmt":"2022-05-01T19:52:24","slug":"transgender-transformed-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/transgender-transformed-review\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Transgender to Transformed&#8217; (Review)"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p>Wow, I am still reeling (in a good way) after reading through Laura Perry&#8217;s book, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3KxqBPh\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline\"><strong>Transgender to Transformed: A Story of Transition That Will Truly Set You Free<\/strong><\/span><\/a>.<\/em> What an amazing testimony of redemption and grace upon grace. I don&#8217;t normally cry when reading books, but I did when reading this one &#8211; several times!\u00a0<\/p>\r\n<p>In writing her story, Laura is extremely honest in grappling with all the spiritual, physical, emotional, and mental issues that contributed to her choice in self-identifying as a man, though she was biologically born a woman.<\/p>\r\n<p>While the redemption she finds in Jesus Christ ultimately sets her free, she beautifully captures the agony and tremendous burden that preceded her eventual surrender to His will:<\/p>\r\n<blockquote>\r\n<p>I had convinced myself I would go to heaven as Jake, living out the rest of my days as a man of God. But I knew when He asked [the question of whose name would He call her] that He would not call me Jake. &#8230; My heart sank; I knew He would not call me Jake. Every possibility that came to mind was certain: God would call me Laura. Laura was who He created; Jake had been my own creation, my own self-imposed identity, not His.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n<p>Before she reaches this point, though, Laura explains a number of traumatic incidents and tragedies in her life that caused her to create her own &#8220;self-imposed identity.&#8221; I won&#8217;t go into all the details, but I&#8217;m so thankful that Laura shows enough courage to share the truth in love, to help others who may be going through the same struggles and gender dysphoria.<\/p>\r\n<p>As with all sexual education resources, I definitely recommend previewing this first before you let your children read it. First, it will help you if your children come to you afterward with questions about a specific part of the book. Second, it doesn&#8217;t catch you off guard if they end up agreeing (or disagreeing) with certain viewpoints mentioned in the book. Perhaps most importantly, it gives you a shared experience from which you can start meaningful, edifying conversations with your family.<\/p>\r\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3KxqBPh\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-138 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/90\/2022\/05\/transgender-to-transformed-book-review-300x158.jpg\" alt=\"transgender to transformed book review\" width=\"300\" height=\"158\" srcset=\"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/90\/2022\/05\/transgender-to-transformed-book-review-300x158.jpg 300w, https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/90\/2022\/05\/transgender-to-transformed-book-review.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Some themes and topics to discuss with your children:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><strong>Spiritual warfare.<\/strong> Laura is keenly aware that even though gender dysphoria and transitioning have physical aspects, much of the battleground that we Christians face on this issue takes place on a spiritual and mental level: &#8220;I did not truly believe my mind could be healed but was certain that it was my body that required fixing.&#8221; What are some ways that we can pray for, and show love toward, people who disagree with us?<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>The power of listening and compassion.<\/strong> When recounting several poignant moments in her life, Laura wonders what might have happened if certain people had taken the time to pinpoint what was\u00a0<em>really\u00a0<\/em>troubling her &#8211; the belief that she should have been the son that her family had wanted, but couldn&#8217;t have when her mom suffered a miscarriage. Laura also had a turbulent childhood relationship with her mom, who she believed would have loved her more if she had been a boy. When she tries confiding in another girl, the girl simply says, &#8220;You really have issues with your mom,&#8221; and walks away. In looking back, Laura ponders what could have happened if the girl had not brushed her off &#8211; &#8220;What if she had taken the time to really talk to me about it? What if she had cared? Would I have ever gone down the transgender road at all? I will never know.&#8221;<\/li>\r\n<li><strong>Don&#8217;t give up hope. <\/strong>I appreciate the encouragement that Laura provides to other Christians, especially if they are seeing someone they love who is currently walking in the transgender lifestyle. &#8220;In talking to transgenders, be aware they they may likely reject what you say, and that is okay. &#8230; The seeds that were planted took time to grow, but grow they did.&#8221; She also reinforces the truth that we can&#8217;t do anything in our own strength, but we must rely on the Lord: &#8220;Helping [transgender people] see what caused their feelings\u00a0<em>may<\/em> help lead them to Christ, but the gospel and hope of Jesus for true healing must be the focus. It is Jesus Christ who sets free.&#8221;<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>I hope this review gives you some fresh insights and inspiration in how to incorporate sex education with your children in a holistic, literature-focused approach.\u00a0<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/contact-form\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" data-type=\"page\" data-id=\"29\">Let me know<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0if there\u2019s a specific resource you\u2019d like me to review next!<\/em><\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wow, I am still reeling (in a good way) after reading through Laura Perry&#8217;s book, Transgender to Transformed: A Story of Transition That Will Truly Set You Free. What an amazing testimony of redemption and grace upon grace. I don&#8217;t normally cry when reading books, but I did when reading this one &#8211; several times!\u00a0&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/transgender-transformed-review\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">&#8216;Transgender to Transformed&#8217; (Review)<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":153,"featured_media":138,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,16,2],"tags":[5,3,17],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/153"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=134"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":139,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134\/revisions\/139"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/138"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=134"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=134"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/homeschoolblogger.com\/fiercestblaze\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=134"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}